In what other profession would it be deemed acceptable to just not show, not let you know, receive payment then be nearly an hour late when rearranged with no communication then be arsey because the customer who has been waiting for you has to leave?!/
Seriously, he called to say he'd come last week, I was away but said I'd transfer the money and he could ask a friend at the yard to get dpony in. I heard no more, assumed she was done so paid straight away. 5 days later I get a text saying it didn't happen and is tomorrow OK? (no time on it though). A time was arranged.
So today, me, grumpy teething DS and MIL's dog all traipse up there, drag in dpony, plan on a bit of a walk and hanging around to put dpony away. Half an hour later, no word. I drag (literally) dpony into the stable which she hates and set off on our walk to amuse now bored DS and dog. On the way back down I get a text saying 'on my way up'. He arrived nearly an hour late.
We get back to the yard, not so much as a 'sorry, I got caught up' and the farrier is already grumpy with grumpy dpony because she was put in a stable. MIL wants to pick up dog, DS is bored again and needs tea fairly soon so I have to ask the farrier to bung dpony back in her field when he is done (he has said this isn't a problem). Cue lots of grumpiness and huffing and puffing. I explained I'd hoped to be up there to chat and put her away but it had just got too late. I also asked him to hang up her headcollar (as he usually just throws it on the floor, although I didn't say that) more grumpiness.
I understand it is ideal to have the owner/someone there for shoeing but dpony is not a raging enormous beast, she's 13hh and easy. He has loads of his own native ponies so is not unused to them or how to handle them. He doesn't work weekends or evenings (fair enough) and basically dictates when he will come. If I am at work or at home and have no sitter I have to put her in a stable for the day and ask him to turn her out afterwards, which he originally offered.
Anyway, sorry, total rant. Why on earth should I, the paying customer be treated as if I should be grateful that he should deign to come at all? He's not doing me a favour.
I am fed up of trying to bend over backwards to make things as easy as possible and just being met with attitude.
Please tell me not all farriers are like this? He's good so I have worked around it but have never found a reliable one who is even remotely good at communication.
ARG!!!!