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Difficult decision, advice needed please...

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umbrellie · 02/08/2014 21:49

I have a 20 year old horse that i've owned for 5 years.
She's not been ridden in 2 years due to my loss of confidence, it's through no fault of hers. Previously she was the perfect horse, we hacked out several times a week, schooled occasionally (we both preferred hacking!)
I'm now having to face the decision to rehome her, due to the fact that i've started my own business so have limited time, along with the fact that I can't bring myself to ride (any horse, not just her) so she's just sitting wasted in a field. I might add that she is comfortable in the sense that she has everything she needs, she doesn't go without. She is a healthy horse and there is no reason that if she were with the right person that she couldn't come back into work.

My problem is, I don't know what to do with her. I've tried advertising her, even last year when she'd only been out of work for 1 year, no one is interested. I'm aware that the market for horses is terrible at the moment and people are wanting young horses to be able to do things with. My horse won't load, so that limits her even more. She's also a typical mare and isn't afraid to push her luck. I'm wondering now if the kindest thing would be to have her PTS, atleast that way i'd know that she wasn't going to be passed pillar to post and that she's had a good life wanting for nothing. The other half of me says she's too good of a horse to PTS, she's got so much fire in her belly and i'd feel guilty stopping all of this.

Gah, I hope this makes sense, I really don't know what to do. Help please?

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SaggyAndLucy · 10/08/2014 02:09

I would have her pts. I really wouldn't pass her on.

umbrellie · 10/08/2014 16:00

Slowloris, finances are an issue, yes. I have my own business that is still in the early stages so i'm trying to keep a hold of as much as possible.

I've been looking into retirement homes since my last reply, found one that is £36 a week. Is this expensive or cheap? Not sure I could justify that either though, considering I pay £70 a month for livery at the moment (although we do have to buy haylege/bedding/school hire on top of that)

Another issue is the land available for her at the yard, i'll upload a pic in a second (try to!) she has such a small paddock but there is no where else for her, I can't half/half it to allow one bit to grow back as its not big enough. I'm really beginning to feel the pressure of all this

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lavendersun · 10/08/2014 16:17

It sounds very hard.

I have always kept my horses at home and if the right person came along I would happily have their horse on my land for free if they could help with care (as I have too much grass for my fatties).

Would that be an option? Perhaps reduce your livery bill by helping out the odd day, even if it means moving her, I know that you need to save money but do you have much spare time?

Two of mine are now retired and, as hard as it is at times, I could never part with them because i would always worry about them (and I think I owe it to them after owning them for 18 years).

Unless the perfect home cropped up if you can't keep her I would PTS.

umbrellie · 10/08/2014 16:23

The white posts on the right is her boundary

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Jonkastique · 10/08/2014 19:18

I have a 19 year old Belgian wb. I evented him until last year. I had a baby in Feb and he is semi-retired now. I hope to hack him soon but I run my own business too, so time is tight.

However, i'm lucky in that we keep him at home. Long term full livery wouldn't be much fun - for my bank account or for my horse.

I wouldn't sell my horse. He's too old and not straightforward - don't know many wbs which are! If I couldn't keep him at home, I'd keep him on livery. If I couldn't do that, I'd try to find a loan home where I could keep an eye on his welfare. If I couldn't fine somewhere suitable, I would have him ptss.

It would break my heart; but better that than suffering in a bad home.

I really feel for you.

Jonkastique · 10/08/2014 19:38

And btw I would want to be with my horse if he was pts, but that's a very personal choice. If you will be distressed, best not to as it will upset your horse. Your mare won't know what the injection means; only you and the vet will know.

annoyedofnorwich · 10/08/2014 20:58

Can you afford retirement livery?

annoyedofnorwich · 10/08/2014 21:02

Just seen post where you mention £36 for retirement livery. You might find it somewhere a little cheaper but probably not much. It comes down to if you can afford ot (and if you want to). If you can't then I think you're right to be concerned about her being passed on at her age.

annoyedofnorwich · 10/08/2014 21:02

Can you afford retirement livery?

umbrellie · 14/08/2014 21:02

Just to update you all - my girl is going to a retirement livery :))

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Hobnobissupersweet · 15/08/2014 09:27

Thanks for the update and really glad you have sorted something out for her

Flexibilityisquay · 15/08/2014 22:14

Oh that's brilliant. I didn't even know there was such a thing until I read this thread, but I'm glad to see you've got something sorted. I hope she has a happy retirement!

lavendersun · 19/08/2014 22:01

I am really pleased you have sorted something out - good for you.

Floralnomad · 19/08/2014 22:03

So pleased you got something sorted ,is it local to you ?

Wolfiefan · 19/08/2014 22:10

So glad you found a retirement livery. I was going to say Horseworld.
Also gutted I'm half an hour north of Bristol. I'd love some riding!
Grin

missnms · 19/08/2014 22:45

I've just read through the whole post and I'm so, so pleased to hear she's going to retirement livery and not being PTS. Great decision, she's been there for you for the last 5 years and given you lots of good times so I think it's only fair you give her a nice retirement.

Otherwise, loaning at a new yard would be a good option (that way you can still keep any eye on her welfare). There are plenty of nice people out there who would take her on and lots of great websites now too to advertise on, it just takes time to make sure they're the right person for her. I'd definitely loan/rehome an older horse, even just as a companion, if it meant they had a few more happy years.

umbrellie · 24/08/2014 17:35

It's in Devon, about 2 1/2 hours away but look lovely so in okay with it. The yard name is Monshall horse retirement livery if anyone knows it? :)

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