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Old horse lying down

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Littlegreyauditor · 07/12/2013 16:32

Hello there, this is my first ever thread and I wanted to pick your collective horse brains. Sorry it's a bit long.

I have a very elderly Connemara (between 30 and 35 years old) who has been fully retired for 5 years. He is arthritic in his back end, has a couple of cataracts and a few nodules on his dock, but otherwise in rude health (literally rude, he oozes attitude from all his pores).

He lives out all summer and has recently come in for the winter. I try to turn him out most days for exercise if the weather is not too foul. Today it was a balmy 9 degrees so I let him out without his rug so he could scratch at the massive, shaggy winter coat. He spent the day bumbling about but, according to the stable owner he lay down for a lot of the day. As I was mucking him out he was watching from the field when he suddenly disappeared from view and when I went to check he was lying flat out on the ground. I called him a few times but there was no reaction. Thinking he was gone I ran over and he gave me a filthy look and stood up.

He is not agitated, not kicking at his gut, pacing, salivating etc. I know that colic is still a possibility, as is him being just plain tired and old, but it was wondering if this is maybe a warning sign of the end approaching. Sad. It is not usual for him to lie flat out unless there is some serious sunshine for him to bask in.

I am keeping a close eye on him for now but I think I may need to brace myself.

Has anyone any experience of similar?

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frostyfingers · 03/03/2015 08:49

Wonderful picture - a memory to treasure. I'm so glad you had that extra time with him.

Mitzi50 · 03/03/2015 08:59

What a moving thread - your love for him is so obvious. I'm sorry for your loss xx

HairyPotter · 03/03/2015 09:04

I'm so sorry. What a fabulous life though, he sounds brilliant.

Sleep well Harvey xx

honeyroar · 03/03/2015 13:09

Aww, how sad. Hope you're ok. All I can say is that I hope mine have such a lovely long life and go like that, relatively quickly knowing they're loved.x

Littlegreyauditor · 03/03/2015 15:38

Thank you. The crematorium collected him last night and were totally respectful and lovely to him. I would totally recommend them to anyone.

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springlamb · 03/03/2015 15:46

Sorry for your loss.
What a fabulous time the two of you had, the PicnicJumpers!

meerschweinchen · 03/03/2015 16:01

Aw, I'm so sorry. He sounds (and looked) fabulous.

I absolutely love the story of the two of you jumping the picnic table. Smile

In a way, it's good that he went fairly quickly and was happy until just before. I dread having to make that decision for my horse. Somehow I imagine that if it just happens, it saves you the agony of seeing them going downhill for weeks/months and wondering if you're doing the right thing.

It's obvious he had a great life with you -lucky boy.

Littlegreyauditor · 03/03/2015 20:12

You're right you know. He took the decision completely out of my hands as it was obvious that something catastrophic had happened, so I was in no doubt at all what needed to be done. It's a relief actually not to be second guessing myself, and it's typical of him to have looked after me like he did his whole life.

The day before we were out for a dander down our lane with my wee boy, so I have some lovely pictures of 2 year old DS insisting on holding the end of the lead rope and Harvey doing his Mrs Doubtfire act, minding the wean.

My whole family learned to ride on him and he never put a foot wrong; gentle with babies and beginners, rocket fueled with the more adventurous (lunatics). We were so! so lucky to have him. He never, ever let us down and I think I will miss him my whole life.

Thank you all for your kind words. Cake

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TheFnozwhowasmirage · 07/03/2015 21:49

I've just caught up with bthis thread,I'm so sorry to hear about your lovely boy,but what a wonderful life he had with you.Flowers

TendonQueen · 07/03/2015 21:53

Gorgeous photo. How lucky you both were to have had each other all that time. Flowers

Millie2013 · 10/03/2015 07:30

What a lovely and lucky boy. I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mare last April, aged 32 and it was heartbreaking

EnlightenedOwl · 11/03/2015 23:03

I have just seen your update and filling up here!
So sorry to hear your news but glad he had such a long happy retirement and he was obviously very much loved
Take Care

Owl
xxxx

Allstoppedup · 11/03/2015 23:14

Sobbing here thinking of your boy (who was a real looker by the way) and fondly remembering my golden oldie boy too.

Sounds like you had a fantastic life together and you were both so very lucky to have found each other.

So sorry for your loss but what a wonderful life he must have had. Flowers

Selks · 11/03/2015 23:40

Oh bless him, and bless you for loving him and caring for him so well. So sorry for your loss Flowers

kormachameleon · 11/03/2015 23:51

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Rosieposy4 · 14/03/2015 22:34

So sorry to hear about the loss of your old boy. RIP Harvey x

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