So first of all I of course fully support maternity rights. I believe women often get screwed over at work when pregnant and I think that’s unacceptable.
However…
A colleague of mine at work (primary school) who I’ve been friendly with since I started last year had a baby a few weeks ago. Obviously everyone was delighted for her and mum and baby doing well. I went to visit her a few days ago and meet the baby. Her husband was there - he works in an office full time.
We were chatting and she told me she was so pleased with how she’d organised her shared parental leave. I didn’t know what she meant. She said that basically she’s doing shared parental leave so she goes back to work every half term holiday, Easter and the whole of summer. She gets paid full time while her husband is taking time off to look after the baby. Of course in reality the school is closed.
i didn’t say anything very because I didn’t want to sound critical and it’s none of my business but AIBU to think this is taking the piss? Our school is absolutely cash strapped at the moment. We’ve had to not replace two TAs last year. And this is nothing to do with jealousy on my part for not thinking of this when I was on maternity ten years ago (not sure it was an option then anyway). Or should I take the view that mat pay is crap and so people are bound to do this?