On the last day of term I was told very abruptly that I will be going on a support plan. The shortest version I can give. This happened after an incident with a SEN child who has severe mental health issues. No one was able to change her nappy (year 2) due to her hitting, biting and throwing herself on the floor. She was most of the time with the SENCO who is also the assistant head. Something happened in my absence as I was in class and my TA went to the headteacher in an emotional state and ended up calling her a rude lady. I was then told there is an investigation. 1 day later they said to me you are going on a support plan due to negligence of not changing nappy. They completely ignored the fact I was not with the child. My TA told me at 7pm she already knew about it because she and the phase leader already discussed the support plan. I don’t know what to do because it doesn’t seem fair and the procedure isn’t fair. Why did they discuss me with the TA. Should I go to the union, I don’t want to sign anything. It wasn’t me who was negligent it was the SENCO who left the girl in welfare and went to the Christmas fair then refused to call the child’s mum, the child had a head injury from banging on the concrete ground. Later the headteacher emailed me at 8 pm saying you had a stellar start to the year this is just to support you. Then the phase leader whatsapp me. I didn’t reply. I don’t need their help I raised concerns in July they shut me down saying I am discriminating, they never gave me extra help they just left me in the class. My TA keeps complaining she keeps saying she’s better than this job. Please help. They ruined my entire holiday.