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Replying to a parent email embarrassingly late

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GiddyBlueShark · 10/03/2025 11:42

I teach K and I am typically very prompt with email responses. I even reply after my contracted hours and usually within the same day an email is received. I had a parent reply to my newsletter email last week about the fact that they would not make it to parent-teacher conferences and requesting an alternate time. The problem is, I never saw or opened it as I had a different parent reply to the same email and the initial reply got buried in the chain. I get about 60 emails per day and don’t always have planning time so it is easy to lose track of things, although I am usually very prompt.

I got an email yesterday from the same parent reiterating what they had said and wondering if I had received their initial email. They did not seem upset it just seemed like a follow-up. I was a bit confused as I did not recall seeing their initial email and then checked to find that it was from 9 DAYS ago with no reply from me. I got back to them right away and apologized for my late response. I am woefully embarrassed and feel quite unprofessional!! It would be one thing to miss replying to an email about a student being absent due to sickness (still not good) but entirely another to miss an email about a parent-teacher conference. Has this happened to anyone else??

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Dillythedallyduck · 10/03/2025 16:03

Yes of course, like you I pride myself on replying promptly but in reality this sort of thing happens with emails...to everybody.
No need to overthink and beat yourself up about it just reply now with a brief explanation. It really isn't crime of the century.

BoleynMemories13 · 10/03/2025 16:44

Of course it's happened to everyone at some point (well, missing an email. Parents don't have our email address at our school thank goodness).

You say yourself that they don't seem annoyed, they're just checking whether you'd seen it. That suggests they know your only human! Just apologise for missing it, rearrange the meeting and move on with your life. I'm sure they won't think anything of it. No biggy. Give yourself a break.

redsquirrel07 · 10/03/2025 18:50

Don't beat yourself up about it. You're only human and we are busy people, sometimes things get missed - you replied as soon as you realised and have apologised ❤️ they won't think anything less of you! And if they do then that says more about them x

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