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Parental leave as a teacher

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SunnyZ · 08/12/2023 02:18

I'm up in the middle of the night worrying myself silly about DD13 (Year 9). We've had ongoing issues with school attendance due to a combination of physical and mental health issues. We're currently nearly two weeks in to a nasty bout of tonsillitis that isn't clearing up with antibiotics. Both DH and I are teachers - him secondary, me primary. She's had so much time off school that it's just becoming impossible to juggle. We have both taken days off or part-days off here and there, my Mum has come to stay when she can, I have even taken her to sit in the corner of my classroom. There have been days where she's had to stay home alone, although I try to pop back at lunchtime.

Now it looks possible that she might have glandular fever which I know can take months of recovery. I was wondering if this might be the sort of situation I (or DH) might be able to tale parental leave for? I understand it's a legal entitlement for all parents but I think you have to give a certain amount of notice. I know school would be really pissed off if I asked. They hate using teachers from agencies and we only have one regular supply teacher who probably couldn't cover a large chunk.

I'm at the point where I'm considering quitting anyway as our family life can't sustain the demands of two full-time teaching parents but it wouldn't help me out in the short-term as I couldn't leave before Easter now.

Has anyone taken parental leave as a teacher and how did you go about it?

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teaandbiscuitsforme · 08/12/2023 06:46

I took 6 months off, unpaid obviously. Some LAs have a special leave/sabbatical policy. Mine doesn't but I did use others online for guidance. I first spoke to my head and explained my reasons. Then I wrote a letter to the chair of govs. They had to get approval from HR. Then they advertised for me cover for the fixed period that I had asked for off.

SunnyZ · 09/12/2023 10:24

Thank you. 6 months off would be amazing but I can't see my school agreeing to it as it's so hard to get fixed term cover. Might be better to just hand in my notice then wait a while before looking for something else.

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PastTheGin · 09/12/2023 20:50

I had to quit my job due to dd’s mental health issues. A colleague of mine took an unpaid sabbatical for a year to look after their child with mental health issues.
This is a situation where your daughter has to come first. It’s tough, you have my sympathy.

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