FWIW I agree there are issues within the union and how these messages are being shared. But not returning ballots just weakens the position of teachers in general, and if they don't strike, they will be further weakening our position.
But the NEU are clear any pay rise must be fully funded- that is at the core of their message.
There is possible mileage in striking over the abuse teachers face from students and parents, that is definitely working conditions. I don't know what outcome we would be pushing for? Ultimately, it would come down to more exclusions for students, I think- which is something the NEU is, or was, ideologically against, and a lot of teachers would be uncomfortable with.
I don't know what the solution would be for parents- to strike over it, it has to be something concrete.
SEND support is really difficult. Striking on behalf of support staff unfortunately is illegal, and I can't see how we would get better SEND provision without improving things for support staff.
Pay is a clear thing, which is easy(ish) for the union to organise a strike over. I think a lot of people aren't aware of the laws around strike (and action short of a strike) action. It is difficult for unions.
But I do agree the messaging could be better.