Returning to teaching after cancer treatment

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It is some way off, but thinking ahead. Has anyone returned to teaching ( mixed comp) bald, and with no breasts? How did it go? How did the children handle it? How did the school handle it? How did you approach it yourself?

Or if you have had a colleague in this situation, please describe the situation as far as you understand it.

Can it work?

Had a young colleague in this situation many many years ago. Staff embraced her, visited her at home. In fact, she threw a house party the weekend before returning to work to break the ice as she thought people my shun her or feel awkward. It was the total opposite.
How are you doing?

I don’t have any experience of returning after cancer, but I have had extended periods of ill health. I’d say a sensible (and long!) phased return will be important. Maybe one class for a week, two classes the next week… etc. Be ready to pull back on it if necessary.

you might also need to accept that your teaching style will change (at least temporarily). I found that setting booklets of work was helpful - one big planning session, but then the ongoing teaching/planning was much easier.

Let’s be honest, the pupils are going to be interested in why you were off, how you are etc. what do you feel comfortable telling them? Having a stock phrase ( “I was ill and I’m getting better now”) might help you feel in control, or you might be happy to answer their questions.

Think about how you want to talk to your colleagues as well as students. Do you want SLT to ask them not to discuss your treatment with you? Or are you happy to talk to peers?

I really feel for you. I hope you have brilliant support around you and that the treatment is almost done. Take care

Some great advice on here already. Speaking to your HT or line manager about facilitating a phased return to work and perhaps having TA support in your classroom to support you where required. Not had cancer myself but I know many people who have and they’ve felt very tired quite often, the ability to have increased breaks if required.

You really do not need to divulge in details of your health if you don’t want to - it’s certainly not something I’d want to be discussing with students. All they need to know is that you were off for a period of time due to illness but now you’re getting better and back at work.
You may find especially in your first week or so back at work, your colleagues will be keen to speak to you and that - if you don’t want the ‘fuss’ - speak to your line manager.
Have you got a wig?

I returned to school (primary) in April after treatment for breast cancer. I didn't have a mastectomy but did have a lumpectomy, chemo and radiotherapy,my hair was VERY short so I wore a wig for half a term but my hair was getting too long plus the weather was warming up.

I had a phased return over 6 weeks. After May half term I went into school without my wig. I had a couple of comments off 2-3 kids on that first day and that was it.

I was covering Y6 part time and the Y6 class teacher did forewarn the kids beforehand and they were lovely.

If you want to DM please feel free and I hope your treatment is going well.