I am in my NQT year, and have 3 kids. We have only managed to keep the ship afloat because DH (who earns a lot more than me) has been working from home, and so could do school pick ups/ child care related stuff. But he’ll be back in the office in central London next year, and we just feel that for a couple more years (whilst youngest is at primary), we’ll all have a better balance if I could work p/t. (DH would love to work p/t but we need his money more!)
My mum, who lives 5 hours away, has recently been diagnosed with cancer and has about a year to live. My brother lives abroad, so it’s just me.
In January I told my mentor (who works 3 days a week) that I was going to ask my HT for part time. She said he did not like PT, and he’d say no. I decided to ask anyway. He was more reasonable than I expected, and said he’d consider it. Then he said no, ‘unless I held a gun to his head.’
Then I got the news about my mum, and I think a combination of wanting to keep me (we lose a lot of teachers in a London school as they tend to move out to more affordable housing stock), and realising I’d need to head off to see mum a lot, meant he has agreed to let me do 3 days a week.
I pitched the argument that he knows I work hard and letting me go p/t he would be paying for 3 days a week but getting 5 days a week. Also, this way, realistically, with my mum’s health declining rapidly, anything I have to do in that area will happen on my time, not school’s time.
I am very very very grateful to him and the SLT for being so supportive and flexible, and count my blessings...
I think as long as you build a case for why it would work for the school, you might as well pitch it - you have nothing to lose. Good luck!