The problem is Lola, you and piggy and jane seem to view a number of changes far more personally than I do. Although I have sometimes worked somewhere that just isn’t right and was making me miserable (a view often shared by OFSTED) there have been other schools I’ve loved but I couldn’t stay because my life changed.
To briefly explain, my first school was horrific, behaviour wise, and did that delightful trick of giving the NQT aged 22 all the bottom sets and then acting astonished when she struggles
I left after two years, but I was so keen to get out the school I applied to was just too far. I was still in the early stages of my teaching career and I was broke from my mortgage and commuting costs! Hence I left the second after two years.
My third school was an extremely fast-paced and ambitious school. I applied for an internal promotion, didn’t get it, applied for an external promotion
and got it (I was surprised.) So I only stayed a year.
Fourth school was on its way out and was due to close, a fact that I only learned when I arrived. So I started looking again within a year. I again got the first job I applied for, as second in dept at a lovely school. A year after I arrived, I fell in love (puke
) I’d actually arrived at that school in the January so I prepared to start my ‘new life’ a year and two terms later. No hard feelings at all and I got my first HOD role.
School 6 was where there was a psycho head. I lasted two terms, leaving at Easter. Two weeks after I left, she was dismissed. I was genuinely scared for my career at that school. I got my second HOD role (school 7) and I did just over two years there. I loved it but I had to relocate due to a personal reason (don’t want to be identified.) School 8 was a one year contract, as I left school 7 in a rush, luckily they were understanding. (It wasn’t anything illegal or anything by the way, just something sad.)
I was looking for a post on HOD level and got an assistant head role at school 9, but then got pregnant and it wasn’t a ‘good’ pregnancy. Stepped back, and then only decided to go back when babies a bit older. That was school 10, and I hate it, but stuck it out for just over a year.
So really, its just been life. It’s been sometimes yes thinking ‘this is not for me’ but it’s also been moving, marriage, babies, loss, love. There’s definitely times where looking back I think I shouldn’t have done that such as getting a job in a school that was barely commutable but then it was nearly fifteen odd years ago and I was only 24 ...