My experience that nearly drove me out of teaching -
I was new to a school which had a large number of teachers who had been there 20+ years, and had taught parents etc. Those teachers got great behaviour. I was experienced but still a new face and not known (so not an ex-student like many teachers there). Top sets/mixed classes: I had immaculate behaviour, strong routines, making excellent progress right from the start (so clearly can actually teach in decent conditions). Bottom set (and bottom bottom set at that) y8 and 9, very very challenging. Swore at, openly defied, tried to follow behaviour system but required huge amount of work - eg was asked why I wasn’t phoning home every time - erm well these students have so many detentions they can’t book another one in, they are badly behaved all over the place, but my one phone call (made in my own time) is supposed to change things? Also as a FT teacher and single parent I was not exactly wallowing in time to do this.
Y9 class after lunch were routinely late - 5 or 6 of them every lesson. Logging these left me at my computer right at the point of the lesson when they urgently needed a teacher at the front. Confronting kids led to drama much-enjoyed by all, inevitable sendings-out which despite my calmness were used as a change for a lovely scene, and students were often sent back because “isolation is full” (but wait, there’s no behaviour problems at this school, it’s just me, so how can that be?)
HoD (of 5 years teaching experience) asks what can be done to help support me with this class. I say “could you or someone from SLT stand outside the room for the first ten minutes once or twice and mop up any latecomers. Then I could get a run of positive, well-started lessons under my belt,
I could get the good students more onside as they would see the naughty ones being tackled, and we could get some learning done.”
HoD does not do this. He sends in the old-guardest of old-guard SLT to do an ofsysd graded observation, period 4 on a Friday, which I clearly spectacularly fail. One of the reasons being that students were regularly late and I wasn’t tackling it. Was told I needed to “be more engaging” but also that I smiled too much, needed to be stricter but also that I talked too loud, and had I even tried handing out detentions?
I knew then I was doomed and I basically ended up having a breakdown. I left and got another teaching job that is like night and day, but I always think, what if my HoD had trusted my judgement as an experienced teacher and just done what I’d asked? We could have cracked the problem in a week. Instead they paid me for 6 months off sick, the class had all manner of teachers (and never did behave better), and the profession nearly lost a good teacher!
And this is a good school with a strict uniform and beaming students on the prospectus. They still don’t have any behaviour problems either! Apparently. Although the high number of teachers on long-term sick doesn’t back that up.