I bailed out of teaching after graduating. Because I had bad teaching practices. My first year I had a brilliant report and hadn’t A & A+ for each area. Second year, had a horrible class teacher and a horrible school. Teaching assistants would walk in as I was teaching and start calling the children out she needed whilst also talking to the other children ‘Sarah I seen you shopping on Saturday didn’t I, did you go to the cinema after? What did you watch? Did you enjoy it?’ Etc. My class teacher- any help I asked for, she was always busy, or she would say ‘well shouldn’t you know that by now?’ Comments along those lines. It should have given me a good hint when the student already on placement, had called her university mentor in the day I started because she was having a difficult time. The last day of placement the secretary took me and her aside and apologised for the appalling behaviour of staff towards us. Turned out they were closing the school so staff were being made redundant, my teacher due to her age (a few years from retirement) thought she wouldn’t be employed anywhere, and they all had been told not to tell me and the other student. So basically everything was up in the air for people and me and the other student suffered.
Placement 3, had a class teacher who was also deputy head (think Miss Trunchball- Matilda!). She walked into the staffroom one day, stood at the door and informed me infront of everyone, that although I had excellent classroom management and I rarely shouted, I should shout more so that the children had a little ‘fear’ of me. I was so embarrassed. After school a teacher called me into her classroom where two other teachers were, and they all told me to ignore what she said, that if I could manage a class of year 5’s without shouting I was doing something good. But she made my planning so difficult. If I asked for support because I wasn’t sure if something would work, or if I did not understand something. She would look at me and say ‘I suggest you try and find that out’ (no joking she used it every day without fail!). She would also tear apart a lot of my planning, and would criticise, but never give me constructive feedback.
The funny thing with the one above, is that she had only been a mentor for two years. What she didn’t know was I always took my planning once it was done (and I’d delivered the lesson) to my MIL. Who was an experienced teacher, head teacher, and had been a mentor for donkeys years. It goes without saying she picked up on things I could have done different, mistakes I’d made etc. But she was also confused where my mentor had criticised something and she would say no what you have done is right.
Unfortunately being young and not wanting to rock the boat, I never said anything to my university mentor🤦♀️. Funny how when I had my observations by my university, she never said anything about my planning!
So I had 1 good placement and 2 bad. Those last two put me off teaching. I loved the kids. I didn’t mind the workload. They just showed me how bitchy and horrible the school environment could be. On the plus side I did use my teaching experience- to train adults in courses such as safeguarding. The plus plus side, was I was on 45k within a few years of graduating, worked from home anything from 1-5 days a week, and never missed a sports day, concert, parents evening etc. So it didn’t go to waste!
OP Have you thought about giving her the weeks planning on the Friday instead of Monday, so she also has those two days aswell? I appreciate she may have reflections etc to write up, but maybe it could help?
Also you say you meet on the Thursday to discuss how the planning is going. What if you asked her for a piece on the Monday (if you gave it Friday), then another part Tuesday and so on. I know you would be breaking it up for her and she should be taking responsibility for her own planning etc etc. But maybe breaking it down for her, she may see doing one task, easier than a weeks worth in one go. Then maybe giving her the full week for her last week. By which she may have a grip on things? Only a suggestion.
By the way ‘congratulations’ to all of you stil in teaching! From what I read in the media and on forums like this, I’m surprised more teachers aren’t off with work related stress. I honestly don’t know how you manage right now.