I was going to ask whether anyone has a cleaner.
I used to have one when I worked full-time before, but I only had my eldest then, and she was pre-school, whereas now, both my daughters are old enough to help out.
My older DD already does the ironing. DH does all the cooking.
The trouble though, is not really the cleaning, it's the tidying. And cleaners don't tidy. Also, I reckon I could train my DDs to do the cleaning (hoovering, clean bathroom, dusting etc. - my idea would be a 2 hour family cleaning session every Saturday morning or something), but training them to be tidy, I am just finding impossible. For example, I have just got everything up off the floor in the living room to do a quick hoover, and within the time it's taken me to type this, my younger DD has some cuddly toys out, cut up some paper, so bits of paper everywhere, scissors on the floor. The whole house is like this, and I feel like I'm constantly fighting a losing battle.
I HATE untidiness, but do I accept it as part of having children, or even just the fact that lots of people are living in one house and leave their stuff everywhere (including me)?
I must admit, when I was exam marking in June, I had no time to do any tidying/cleaning at all, and it didn't actually get any worse i.e no more than a few bits of paper on the floor, a few cuddly toys, a few books/DVDs left lying around, the odd item of clothing. BUT, it drives me MAD!!