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Embarrassed by parent letter - wwyd?

6 replies

123fushia · 05/07/2018 19:18

Child in my class came with wad of envelopes today, showed me them at home time. I thought they were party invitations. She gave them out, then told me they were “letters from my mum to get money from parents to buy teachers better presents.” I am so embarrassed. Many of our families live in poverty and can’t afford to buy shoes etc.
I felt I had to say to her that there was no need for that, and to the others that I had nothing to do with it, but didn’t act quickly enough and they went home. I feel terrible...this parent is a known busybody who has been very ‘involved’ in school life through the years with her six children. How would you feel if this happened to you? I am just so embarrassed.

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restingbemusedface · 05/07/2018 19:22

I don’t know the rules around this as my kids aren’t school age yet, but could you speak to your head about having a ‘no gifts’ policy, and maybe send out a letter saying that home made cards are much appreciated?

HollowTalk · 05/07/2018 19:22

I would report this to the HT and ask that someone speaks to this woman about it. Bloody cheeky thing.

Ohlellykelly · 05/07/2018 19:22

Do you have seesaw or a similar platform to try and send out a message to counteract what she's done?

Phosphorus · 05/07/2018 19:22

Go to the head, and have a general letter sent out.

It needs nipping in the bud, before parents start thinking it's a school thing.

jumblefun2 · 05/07/2018 19:24

Deffo go to the head and get a "no gifts home made card is fine" letter sent home.

And hopefully the head will have a word with her and all.

NotCalledVicky · 05/07/2018 19:24

I'd talk to the senior management, then maybe send out another letter, apologising for the misunderstanding and saying that you would prefer not to receive gifts that cost money; however, you appreciate the thought and would be overjoyed to receive pictures or letters that the children have produced themselves.

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