If a kid asked you specifically for "just a small toy because that's allowed" what would you do?
Background ...kid has social issues,some behavioural ones, bad behaviour in playground,refusal to do work etc.,but we seem to have developed a bond and some things (work quality in particular) have improved. Trying to keep it short,as otherwise i'd be writing a small saga. I'd like to add that when i had a chat with pastoral care they told me they've tried everything,so if i want to try as well knock myself out and do whatever ,but no idea if this would be frowned upon,or if such a request should even be answered.