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I should take this job, shouldn't I?

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Doraemon · 02/10/2014 08:15

wise words needed....
my background is in language teaching (Higher Ed and overseas), since dcs came along I have done bits and bobs of teaching/tutoring, worked for NCT, volunteered in school and been a childminder for 3 years. I was supposed to be starting a part time PGCE (lower primary) in January but the college has cancelled the course. Also I'm not sure I will ever have time for a full time teaching post, DS1 (9) has ASD and DS2 (7) is being assessed for autistic tendencies so childcare is difficult, and we have no family able to help on a regular basis.
I applied for a Learning Mentor job in my children's school and didn't get it (which wasn't a surprise as my experience isn't the best fit) but they have offered me a temporary contract. It would be 4 days a week maternity cover in Foundation stage (appalling Level One TA pay) and 1 day taking KS2 French alongside the class teachers. Better pay for that day (HLTA level) but still not great considering I would effectively be setting up the whole scheme of work and doing all the planning, actual teaching, assessment etc with the class teacher there mainly as crowd control.
DD is only 20 months and would have to go to childminder 4 days a week, DH would reduce his hours and have her 1 day a week. I think at the end of the month we would have effectively the same money left as we would with just DH working.
I should take the job shouldn't I? On the basis that (a) I would enjoy it and (b) it would be a foot in the door for more permanent posts in school which would resolve the childcare dilemma long term.
I haven't had a proper job outside the home for 8 years and I spent most of last night alternating between lesson planning in my head and feeling really sad about my baby having to go to childminder (have lovely childminder available and having done childminding myself I know she will be absolutely fine but I was always at home for the other two).

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rollonthesummer · 02/10/2014 20:01

I'm sure lots of people will tell you that it would be good for your CV and long-term employment prospects, but I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't leave my 20 month old every working day to earn no money.

MsHerodotus · 02/10/2014 20:09

I'm afraid I agree with rollonthesummer. There will (really!) always be another opportunity, don't believe people who say now or never. I have done stuff because I thought it would be good for my career, hasn't been disastrous, but with hindsight I should have had more confidence and said 'no' when my gut feel was to say no. Now I am a bit better at that, and, other offers do come along!

sanfairyanne · 02/10/2014 21:56

nah. take it if you want but it doesnt sound great. something else will turn up. how about setting up a private business teaching languages in nurseries for example?

threepiecesuite · 03/10/2014 20:19

I wouldn't take it. I wouldn't swap time with my little one for a very low paid job.
I'm a languages teacher and there are better opportunities out there. Parents are keen for their dc to learn languages.

Doraemon · 07/10/2014 14:49

Thank you for the replies and the unanimous vote of 'No'. Which actually helped me to clarify the fact that I do really want to do this job and I said yes :-)
I've been mainly at home for 8 years and have yet to find a better opportunity. Setting up my own business has no appeal - I have been self employed as an NCT practitioner and as a childminder and I really want to get back to being employed, working as part of a team, having colleagues and a Xmas party to go to etc etc. I have had quite bad depression in the past and the isolation of being at home surrounded by toddlers all the time had been getting to me - for all I will miss being with DD I suspect 4 short days of childminder and one day of Daddy may be a better situation for her than full time with a mildly depressed and irritable mummy who would rather be somewhere else.
Thanks for the input. I'm off to plan a KS2 MFL curriculum in return for peanuts :-)

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