Hi, I am wondering if anyone can help me with advice on a very upsetting matter. My husband is in a relationship with a teacher at our kids school. He left in June and since that time has 'drip-fed' me updates of his relationship with her. Please don't jump to the conclusion that I am a bitter jilted wife, there is a back story to this.
I encouraged my husband to become a volunteer in our sons class as he was out of work back in November. He was enthusiastic but constantly made reference to our sons teacher, texting, facebooking her. In January I asked him if they were having an affair which he denied. Things never felt right and I would find myself feeling like an outsider around them at school events.In April he became a volunteer teaching assistant in her class. Fast forward to June and he leaves. Within weeks he announces his feelings for her and her for him, conveniently in the first week of the summer holidays.
I've been having meetings with the school regarding my sons now disruptive behaviour and in one the head teacher asked me if I believed anyone at the school had acted innapropriatly to contribute to our situation. Basically it had already been brought to her attention by others of their behaviour.
She has suggested to me that I should make an official complaint as the woman in question is not teaching any of my children but is still the key stage head of year. She has been signed off on long term sick.
I have no idea what the conduct is for this type of thing, obviously its been very upsetting for me and the kids. For five months i've bounced this around my head, im not a malicious person and could have caused a scene at the school, seeing her every morning is horrible. Does anybody know anything about rules or not on this? Or even what happens with complaints? Ive looked on the teaching agency's website and nothing. Thanks.