I’m not sure the hoary old ‘old money treats the staff better than the nouveau riches’ chestnut adds anything to the argument either way.
I do think that having a family in a position of power and wealth purely because of their bloodline is frankly ridiculous and anachronistic, and should be dismantled sharpish — on the other hand, I’m depressed by the extent to which discussions about replacing the monarchy with an elected ceremonial HoS on here evidence political illiteracy, with the same nonsense being trotted out about ‘We don’t want a President Trump/Johnson!’ suggesting a total failure to understand the difference between a largely ceremonial HoS (who would not need to be a politician at all, but could be someone with a record of public service and broad support) and the role of PM, or a US-style President with political power.
But living in the UK for 25 years has shown me that as a culture there is still a broad buying into the class system, sometimes entirely unthinkingly, and that a significant number of British people have ridiculously feudal and forelock-tugging attitudes to ‘aristocracy’, and actually like being told what to do by a former Buller boy, even when venal and incompetent. (Boris Johnson, had he not been perceived with be ‘posh’, could not have existed as a political entity. See also perceptions of Jacob Rees-Mogg.)
The coronation should obviously have been scaled back to something very simple, so as not to insult a country on its knees, but again, judging by responses on here, the backroom courtiers and politicians made the right call by going down the bread and circuses route.
When it comes down to it, apparently many people would rather a ruinously expensive parade of horses, state carriages, ermine and state bling, combined with the demented soap opera of royal-watching (Is Kate too thin? Does Harry regret leaving? Is Meghan going to lead to the downfall of the Windsors? Did William shag a Norfolk neighbour?) than having a HoS they can vote for and replace every four years, or, for that matter, a low-key, transparently-funded bicycle monarchy, where ‘coronation’ means just showing up in parliament to sign a document.