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The royal family

Inconsistencies in Spare over hearing about Queen Mother's death

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Ridemeginger · 10/01/2023 14:52

Harry writes that he found out about the Queen Mother's passing away (in March 2002):

"At Eton, while studying, I took the call. I wish I could remember whose voice was on the other end. A courtiers I believe. I recall that is was just before Easter, the weather bright and warm, light slanting through my window, filled with vivid colours. "Your Royal Highness. The Queen Mother has died." "

News reports at the time reported he was skiing in Switzerland with Charles and William. The Queen Mother died on 30 March 2002. Easter Saturday. He wouldn't have been at school.

news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/622457.stm

Recollections may vary, indeed! I doubt very much Harry would have taken the call if he's been with his father.

Didn't the editors do any fact checking?

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NewspaperTaxis · 10/01/2023 20:15

Hi @JemimaTiggywinkles I copied you in sort as in response to your post which seemed more level headed than some others. That said, the explanation by @HaroldsSausageInCider - is that name from an incident in the book?! - as to why the issue is 'Mumsnet gold' is good stuff!

susan12345678 · 10/01/2023 20:17

Penguin’s fact-checkers probably had their work cut out for them and missed this one. What a thankless job that would be.

WRT the rubber fish, I recall these being used st school for children who held their pen incorrectly & had untidy handwriting. Perhaps he took it as an insult

Cath667 · 10/01/2023 20:17

I lost my parents at a young age. I remember everything in detail as if it was yesterday. I also remember where I was when I heard of the deaths of any family members such as grandparents.

Harry doesn't seem to have liked any of his family other than his mother so it's perhaps not surprising he doesn't remember the details as he didn't care.

MissMarpleRocks · 10/01/2023 20:17

Didn’t the judge accuse Meghan of not being completely truthful in her recent court case. In which case the saying
’birds of a feather flock together’ comes to mind.

Shelefttheweb · 10/01/2023 20:23

So Harry May have confused the deaths of his great aunt and his great grandmother but this wasn’t an anecdote he told at a party, or even in an interview, this was written in a book. And when you are writing a book you check your facts. Or have someone check them for you. Especially things like dates.

JemimaTiggywinkles · 10/01/2023 20:26

Fair enough, @NewspaperTaxis .

MissMarpleRocks, Meghan had an unfortunate lapse of memory which was corrected by Knauf’s testimony. Goodness only knows why she wouldn’t want her mistaken testimony pointed out and corrected, and why she was so angry / hurt that Harry’s own brother (and future king) allowed his aide to testify to the actual (provable) truth.

HaveYouSeenNancy · 10/01/2023 20:28

asblindasabat · 10/01/2023 19:27

So what is the general consensus on this? That this puts the rest of his claims in doubt?

It does, for me.
I didn't believe any of the whole 'poor me' rubbish anyway though, so he's just confirmed that he talks a load of bollocks. Complete fantasist but taking casualties with him which is pretty nasty.

DorritLittle · 10/01/2023 20:29

Interesting. I wonder what else his memory got wrong?

MechanicaHound · 10/01/2023 20:39

RECOLLECTIONS MAY VARY

Merrymouse · 10/01/2023 20:42

It seems a strange fact to miss.

I wonder if the secrecy meant the number of fact checkers was limited?

Were they all American? Or quite young? Maybe they didn’t have a sense of Who the Queen Mother was in public life?

Parentandteacher · 10/01/2023 20:49

Boulshired · 10/01/2023 14:56

I wrote about this in another thread, memories do get muddled in grief but the problem is this is someone surrounded by grief. It’s not that he’s miss remembered but that he’s created a false memory. What else in the book could be false memories

I feel for him. He has actually said in the book I believe that he had therapy to recall memories. No reputable British therapist would be doing that because of the evidence around false memory creation. I’ve no doubt that he was told all kinds of important personal news coldly by courtiers, obviously not this particular one. In a sense, it not being factual doesn’t mean it isn’t true in another and important way. But it means that the royals are never going to hear what he has to say. He is a hurting teenage boy, he needs a kind of love that they cannot ever provide because they’ve never experienced it. All desperately sad.

BabyFour2023 · 10/01/2023 20:56

DerangedViper · 10/01/2023 16:49

But it's been all over the press (from Diana, who hadn't been warned and got it wrong) that the RF always exchange small or novelty presents.

Why would he expect different? And yeah, everyone gets a pressie they don't like much from time to time.

Perhaps she bought him a pen to start noting down his lies.

bakalava · 10/01/2023 20:56

There are many therapists in LA who will tell you what percentage Draco/Atlantean/Pleiadian you are. You then drop it into a social media post only for one of your irritating followers to tell you that they also remember you from Ancient Egypt too. I am not actually joking here.

JaneJeffer · 10/01/2023 20:59

I feel for him. He has actually said in the book I believe that he had therapy to recall memories. No reputable British therapist would be doing that because of the evidence around false memory creation. I’ve no doubt that he was told all kinds of important personal news coldly by courtiers, obviously not this particular one. In a sense, it not being factual doesn’t mean it isn’t true in another and important way. But it means that the royals are never going to hear what he has to say. He is a hurting teenage boy, he needs a kind of love that they cannot ever provide because they’ve never experienced it. All desperately sad.
Don't know where to start with this. Well I do but I can't be arsed.

MeghanAndTheSeals · 10/01/2023 21:05

MrsPeachBottom · 10/01/2023 17:59

the royal family are blowing the press and there’s nothing royal about that.

it’s all coming undone, and people are seeing them for what they are - white supremacists in tiaras.

still no photos - the media was a different and less accountable beast back then.

I suppose where he was when his great Nanna died 20 years ago is a fairly banal issue.

I’ve noticed that this is a media strategy. The palace can’t refute the bigger stories or won’t & so they try and find any tiny inconsistencies to discredit people. Bully tactics and so obvious that the royal family is ab abusive, passive aggressive, strategic, manipulative, political, and cladestine operations - their PR strategy.

You are bloody barking mad.

Right, back to find my place on the thread.

RegainingTheWill2023 · 10/01/2023 21:14

Adding my agreement to this simply being evidence that "recollections may vary" .
Given Harry's spiritual beliefs perhaps this is his Granny speaking to him. I hope he listens.

Blossomtoes · 10/01/2023 21:25

He is a hurting teenage boy

He’s 38 actually.

HunterHearstHelmsley · 10/01/2023 21:41

The Royal Family must be rubbing their hands together in glee. Harry has shown himself to be an unreliable narrator. They don't need to say or do anything.

On a side note, I find it incredibly sad that a PP thinks "understanding death" means not remembering where you were or when. I understand death, but I also care about those close to me who have died, so I remember.

Bakeacaketoday73 · 10/01/2023 22:01

Parentandteacher · 10/01/2023 20:49

I feel for him. He has actually said in the book I believe that he had therapy to recall memories. No reputable British therapist would be doing that because of the evidence around false memory creation. I’ve no doubt that he was told all kinds of important personal news coldly by courtiers, obviously not this particular one. In a sense, it not being factual doesn’t mean it isn’t true in another and important way. But it means that the royals are never going to hear what he has to say. He is a hurting teenage boy, he needs a kind of love that they cannot ever provide because they’ve never experienced it. All desperately sad.

Or more likely a drug addled, resentful adult.

I'm more coming round to the view that Chelsea and Cressida bolted when they "knew him better" and poor Meghan has got way more than she bargained for (although I suspect divorce was always in her plan).

Northernshepherd · 10/01/2023 22:07

HunterHearstHelmsley · 10/01/2023 21:41

The Royal Family must be rubbing their hands together in glee. Harry has shown himself to be an unreliable narrator. They don't need to say or do anything.

On a side note, I find it incredibly sad that a PP thinks "understanding death" means not remembering where you were or when. I understand death, but I also care about those close to me who have died, so I remember.

Are you saying to the pp that explained they too get muddled with some memories around bereavements that they probably just didn't care enough about their family members?

Neverplayleapfrogwithmrpipes · 10/01/2023 22:08

news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/622457.stm
in black and white reported by the BBC from 2002

Neverplayleapfrogwithmrpipes · 10/01/2023 22:09

news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/622457.stm

JemimaTiggywinkles · 10/01/2023 22:27

He is a hurting teenage boy

Pull the other one! He’s a 38yo man, father, veteran.

nannyquestion1 · 10/01/2023 22:34

Youwhatnowbiggles · 10/01/2023 15:26

Yes, many have Saturday school but NEVER on Easter Saturday!!! I can guarantee no public school in England would be open on this day. Hth😄

Ohhhhh, missed that bit! 😂

marvellousmaple · 10/01/2023 22:38

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 10/01/2023 16:14

'Oh hi, Haz. Palace here. QM has just carked it, can you tell your dad? ta ever so. Skiing good, is it? bit of a bummer you have to come home. Yeah, I know. Still, she was the last Empress of India so we need to put on a bit of a show.'

No, not seeing it, somehow.

My sides!