*Public services are what the government provides through funding schools, hospitals etc.
Public servants are people employed by the government to carry out policies, eg, civil services
Building and running a hospital can be a public service. It is a stretch to say cutting a ribbon is a public service. Moreover anyone can cut a ribbon (Countries which don’t have monarchies miraculously find people who can cut ribbons. Moreover they don’t make it a cult activity with an insider handshake and if you don’t do it, you are banned from the cult 😃)
*You're conflating both different terms and ignoring the context.
The Queen referred to "a life of public service".
That's what's under discussion here. What a life of public service means in the context of that statement.
If a false parallel to draw an equivalence with Government provided public "services" and "civil servants".
Just because the terms are similar it's not a "gotcha" in any regard.
Nobody is saying that only the RF can provide a public service.
The difference is what that public service entails as a member of the RF and it isn't confined to "cutting ribbons".
*And the constraints, well they seem to be mostly self imposed by some archaic insider norms. I don’t think the government tells Kate or meghan what to wear and what to call their kids. If this is royal protocol, it is a made up game which is actually not required for any of the so called services they provide.
*I agree that some of the constraints are self imposed and archaic (wearing tights, nude nail varnish spring to mind as particularly bizarre) and I suspect as younger generations get the "top" job we will see a great number of changes in "traditions" such as this.
It doesn't however change the fact that the most significant constraints are not the result of outdated protocol - freedom of expression being an obvious example.
The only thing the non-queen royals are required to do, is be neutral and not break the law and that in it self doesn’t not constitute public service, it is simply a requirement
That's not really true is it.
If all senior royals "just" did was not break the law and be neutral we'd be a republic in a month.
They have a wide range of engagements (often planned years in advance) and duties they are directed by the Govt to deliver.
They key difference in what public service means in the context of providing it as a member of the RF is that is both defined and imposed by the Government not the person. It's a form of subjugation to duty largely outside their control.
If you don't see the work of the RF as a public service then you're in the company of a lot of republicans who'd agree with you and you're entitled to that view.
But by the same token disagreeing that the RF provide a public service doesn't equate to proof that H&M will - we've certainly not seen any evidence to date to suggest that their plans are primarily guided by anything other than self interest.