Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

The litter tray

Join our community of cat lovers on the Mumsnet Cat forum for kitten advice and help with cat behaviour.

How do you manage a cat without a cat flap?

83 replies

LavenderLxx · 08/06/2026 08:59

Question for those of you with no cat flap…

We have a nearly 2 year old cat. We have had him since he was 4 months old - neautered, vaccinated, microchipped. When we first started letting him out last year at about 7 months he happily just pottered around the garden and would come rushing straight back in when we shook the treats tin.

He is now nearly 2 and up until about a fortnight ago still only stayed in the garden. But then he finally discovered that he could jump on the brick BBQ and scale the fence! We tried to discourage this but quickly realised it was impossible so bought a tracker to keep an eye on him. He only goes into the neighbours gardens behind us and to either side. So far hasn’t made it as far as the road. But unlike when he was in the garden and he came back when we shook the treats tin he now ignores us!! The problem is we don’t have a cat flap and there is nowhere we can put one! Those of you with no cat flap are you just slaves to opening the door?! It’s been fine while the weather is nice and we’re at home just to have it open, but im
not sure what we do if we’re going out and he’s not coming back when we call! Do we just leave him out there! I know he’s a cat and he’ll probably be fine but I’m very anxious about him being out if we’re not home… Words of wisdom please!

OP posts:
VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 09/06/2026 10:32

We just leave her to it. We've got big patio doors in the lounge and she just sits by them to be let in or out. She's smart enough generally to sit on top of the shed and miaow in the general direction of our bedroom window if we've already gone to bed.

She's happy enough to stay out all night sometimes though, we might get a grumble from her in the morning but she's fine, same if we go out and she's stuck outside all day. She has got a little shelter in the garden she can use if it rains, but she doesn't tend to use it, hangs out elsewhere instead.

She's much less of an outside cat in the winter as well. She'll pop out here and then but she's always back way before we go to bed.

Piglet89 · 09/06/2026 13:26

Case in point: has cat tunnel. Waits by bifold anyway, like some kind of soldier’s sweetheart, waiting for him to return.

How do you manage a cat without a cat flap?
Seeingadistance · 10/06/2026 18:25

Piglet89 · 09/06/2026 13:26

Case in point: has cat tunnel. Waits by bifold anyway, like some kind of soldier’s sweetheart, waiting for him to return.

😂

Hocuspocuspreparatus · 10/06/2026 21:26

Why is your cat in neighbors garden? If you own a pet, it should stay on your property only! Have you considered that some people are anaphylactic to cats wee or fur? Or some people they just don’t want cats in their gardens? Or have you considered that the cat might destroy something in neighbours garden?
before jumping on me, I own 2 cats and a dog and they were trained never to leave our house and garden :)

jessicablu · 10/06/2026 21:37

Hocuspocuspreparatus · 10/06/2026 21:26

Why is your cat in neighbors garden? If you own a pet, it should stay on your property only! Have you considered that some people are anaphylactic to cats wee or fur? Or some people they just don’t want cats in their gardens? Or have you considered that the cat might destroy something in neighbours garden?
before jumping on me, I own 2 cats and a dog and they were trained never to leave our house and garden :)

Please do enlighten us on how the feck you train a cat to not leave your garden

Fizbosshoes · 10/06/2026 22:05

Our cats go in our neighbours garden, several other cats including one from several streets away also come in our garden....they jump over fences or crawl through hedges. Unless we had a catio or similar, I dont know how i would stop them

LavenderLxx · 11/06/2026 07:04

Hocuspocuspreparatus · 10/06/2026 21:26

Why is your cat in neighbors garden? If you own a pet, it should stay on your property only! Have you considered that some people are anaphylactic to cats wee or fur? Or some people they just don’t want cats in their gardens? Or have you considered that the cat might destroy something in neighbours garden?
before jumping on me, I own 2 cats and a dog and they were trained never to leave our house and garden :)

I would love for this to be the car and am
acutely aware that my neighbours might not want our cat in their garden - how did you train yours to stay in the garden?

OP posts:
autumn1610 · 11/06/2026 21:57

@LavenderLxx im in the great cat flap debate too. I think it will be the glass doors for me. At the moment I manage it by only letting him out when it’s convenient for me. If I know I’m out for the day he’s not going roaming. After work especially at the minute while it’s reasonable he goes out for an hour after work and I pluck him off the fence if he heads that way. At the weekend if I’m about for the day then he can roam. He has a tracker which he always puts on before going outside even if he’s just in the garden so he’s used to it. Been trying the sound on the tracker to train him but I can hardly hear it myself 😂 and he doesn’t react to it or treats being shaken. He’s on house arrest as he hurt his leg on his last outing the other weekend and still recovering bless him

New posts on this thread. Refresh page