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My gorgeous cat put to sleep and I just can’t stop crying

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One2threecats · 04/06/2026 21:29

We had our gorgeous British Blue girl Poppy put to sleep 2 days ago and I feel utterly lost; I just can’t stop crying. She was 15 and was just at the heart of our family. She came to us as a tiny kitten 7 weeks old and with then 4,6 and 8 year old boys, just settled into the rough and tumble from day one. As the years went by, she became a study companion passed from bedroom to bedroom through GCSEs, A levels and university exams. She was horrifically attacked just over 2 years ago by an absolute monster of a cat locally and staggered indoors where she collapsed with shock as the other cat had bitten through her facial nerve. Her heart almost stopped and it was only that my vet DH was at home that he started CPR and got her going after a very long and unresponsive 20 mins. She recovered and lived as an indoor cat with outdoors just being our sun terrace fenced in.

She then become very unwell with initially kidney disease that was well controlled but then developed a tumour on her liver. We did all we could and followed all the signs from her, and she really was becoming very unhappy even with all the meds. DH accompanied by another lovely vet friend put her to sleep on the terrace with the birds tweeting around her and she would have heard his voice too. She’s now buried in the garden by her favourite spot by our pond. But oh I miss her so so much.

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500mileslong · 04/06/2026 23:05

What a beautiful girl I’m so sorry 💔 these little furry beings take such a huge part of our hearts with us. It sounds like she had such a lovely life with you and your words about her last moments of life hearing the birds and your dh brought me to tears Flowers

Xmasbaby11 · 04/06/2026 23:17

I’m so sorry op. She’s beautiful and sounds amazing! You must miss her so badly. I adore my cat and can understand how devastated you must feel. She’s been a big part of your lives.

youplonkerrodney · 04/06/2026 23:21

Oh I’m so sorry OP. What a wonderful pet, friend and family member she was. She had a full and wonderful life with you. I often think, as I look at my cat stretched out in a sunny patch, that life doesn’t get much better than a well loved and cared-for cat. She was lucky to have you, and you her.
Thinking of you, I know the pain of loss cuts so deep.

Vargas · 04/06/2026 23:47

Huge condolences to you OP. May Poppy rest in peace knowing she was loved and cherished for 15 years. Flowers

One2threecats · 04/06/2026 23:53

Gosh so much lovely support here, thank you all 💐 @JuneAlready @500mileslong my DH found it very hard which is why he didn’t want to be alone to put her to sleep. I burst into tears when he said that after the sedative she would still be able to hear, although sleeping, and he whispered “time for bed” which is what he said every night to her as she went to her bed 🥹 So she heard a loving voice to the very end

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TheresAsilverLiningInTheSkyee · 04/06/2026 23:59

One2threecats · 04/06/2026 22:14

Thank you all, I feel much less alone ❤

I'm so sorry for your loss, what a beautiful cat ❤️.

She will have known how loved she was and it sounds like she had a very happy life. She's not gone completely all the time she lives on in in your heart and memories x

JuneAlready · 05/06/2026 15:29

One2threecats · 04/06/2026 23:53

Gosh so much lovely support here, thank you all 💐 @JuneAlready @500mileslong my DH found it very hard which is why he didn’t want to be alone to put her to sleep. I burst into tears when he said that after the sedative she would still be able to hear, although sleeping, and he whispered “time for bed” which is what he said every night to her as she went to her bed 🥹 So she heard a loving voice to the very end

He's a keeper 💕

much love to you both xx

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