Hoping someone can help me here.
I’ve two cats, had the one in question 3 years and he’s around 3.5
2 years ago we moved in to a new fist and whilst my cats are allowed free rein if the rest of the place we typically keep the kitchen bathroom and one of the bedroom closed off.
At some point last year my cat began sitting outside the kitchen door meowing to get in. We weren’t cooking anything so I don’t think it’s a smell thing and he doesn’t do it with any of the other closed doors and there are several because we have a couple of storage cupboards too.
But it’s become a habit
He will go to the kitchen door and meow his head off but if you so much as move to get up to see what he wants he runs away and hides them goes back and does it again.
He’ll have periods where he doesn’t do it then it will start again seemingly for no reason.
I’ve tried letting him in, to see what he wants and he just wanders about and then comes out but still sits and cries if it’s closed again.
But now we are getting a new kitchen fitted so it’s not safe for it to be open while we are mid build and ideally I don’t want the cats in the kitchen anyway.
The cats were in a cattery whilst the bulk of the work was done, but unfortunately the renovation is running behind so they’ve had to come home with it unfinished. There’s somewhere safe they can be out of the way when the work is going on so that’s fine.
But within ten mins of being home said cat was at the kitchen door absolutely howling to get in.
Again he runs if you try to go near him but goes straight back and cries once he’s sure you’re sat down again.
And now he’s been doing it all night. He is usually chilled at night and barely a peep from him but he has been meowing very high pitched on and off all night at that kitchen door and I’m at an absolute loss how to stop it. Or what he wants.
He has an issue with his bladder from time to time and sometimes needs medicine when it’s bothering him and I did theorise once that maybe he was crying at that door because we keep the medicine and the accompanying treats in there, but I’m not sure if that’s even relevant or if he just happened to be crying at the door while also suffering with his bladder.
Does anyone have any tips?
The vet said it could be attention seeking so we try to ignore it
And make sure when he isn’t doing it that he gets lots of stimulation and affection
But it doesn’t seem to make a difference and it’s very hard to ignore, particularly when it’s keeping me up all night.
See attached photo of the offending cat looking all cute and innocent.