I'm afraid I can’t really help with specific brand recommendations as I’m not in the UK and make my own raw food anyway. We switched our two boys to raw food when they were about six months old - at that age, they’re usually more willing to try new things compared to adults. That said, it’s absolutely possible to transition adult cats to raw as well.
What kind of meat did you offer your cat, and did you add any supplements? If you’re up for giving it another go, I’d suggest starting with a small amount of plain, lean meat, cut into hazelnut-sized chunks - no supplements for now. Avoid ground or fatty meat, as lots of cats (including mine) aren’t keen on it. For example, mine go absolutely mad for venison, rabbit, and hare, will quite happily eat chicken, turkey and pork (though a word of caution on pork because of Aujeszky’s disease—but the UK hasn’t had a case since 1989, so it’s not a huge worry), but they actively dislike duck, lamb and beef. Maybe whatever you tried just wasn’t to her taste? See if she’ll eat any plain raw meat first before you spend money on supplements or precision scales.
Our previous cat ate a mix of decent quality dry food and fairly rubbish wet food (like Sheba or Felix). By the time we realised just how unhealthy that diet was -not just for his kidneys, but potentially leading to issues like diabetes and pancreatitis - he was already 7 or 8 years old and very set in his ways. He also had a heart condition, so we decided not to stress him out with a diet change and let him stick to his ‘junk food’. He lived to 15 and died from his heart condition. So no, not all cats will develop kidney problems, but it’s worth noting that many do go undiagnosed despite suffering from kidney issues and being in pain, simply because cats are so good at hiding discomfort.
What I can say from experience is the massive difference in the litter box between our old cat (who drank plenty of water and had a wet/dry food diet) and our current raw-fed cats (who occasionally get a tin of wet food or a bit of kibble as a snack). The raw-fed cats pee a lot more. Cats evolved as desert animals, getting most of their water from prey, so they naturally don’t drink enough. Their systems aren’t really designed for dry food, so I’d recommend offering either good quality wet food or raw alongside the kibble.
You mentioned your cat gets diarrhoea from the wet food you’ve tried so far. That could be an allergy to a specific type of meat or an additive that doesn’t agree with her. For example, one of my boys can’t handle anything with potatoes in it, and a friend’s cat gets diarrhoea from chicken. Many supermarket cat foods contain unsuitable additives like sorbitol, which can also cause digestive problems. If you want to give wet food another shot, try single-protein options from a high-quality brand, and get a variety of meats she hasn’t tried before.