I have two cats and don’t have a cat flap yet. A few years ago I let my cat out at night, and in the morning I found him in the garden with a fractured leg. I really blamed myself for this saying if only I didn’t let him out overnight this wouldn’t have happened. I vowed never to let my cats out when I wasn’t at home and awake again.
I now have a younger cat as well who spends ALL day outside. She nips back in a few times for a bite to eat and then is back out again. I work from the office two days a week so keep both cats in on these days because I figure even if they’re bored, it’s only twice a week and they can go out as soon as I’m home and I’d rather them be safe.
However this morning my younger cat was crying and crying to go out while I was getting ready. I let her out because I felt too mean but now I’m at work worrying and stressing wishing I didn’t because if anything happens to her it will be my fault for letting her out all day.
Please reassure me that she will be ok. Do other peoples cats go out while you’re at work? Going forwards until I get a cat flap, would it be cruel to keep her in all day twice a week? Or is it better to keep my peace of mind thats she’s ok inside?