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My cat will be put to sleep this afternoon. I think I have let him down very badly.

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MellowYellow552 · 05/08/2024 10:26

He is 17 and three quarters and he's been treated for hyperthyroidism for over two years. My vet said he should eat either renal-friendly food or have Ipakitine on his normal food as treating hyperthyroidism often reveals underlying kidney problems. He has been doing this for two years (but he's had the odd treat and sometimes robbed from some of the other cats, as they do!)

I came back from holiday three weeks ago and he had the runs, so I gave him probiotic in his usual food which seemed to help. Then last week he was stretching out on the cold tiles next to the back door which I just took as being overheated, because it has been so hot. I now think I should have called the vet.

He was picky with food on Friday (though he did try and steal ice cream midweek!) then Saturday he started to go downhill very badly. Wobbling about, not eating, plaintive meows, drinking gallons. He's eaten some food, but picked at it. Last night he meowed loudly for some cooked chicken and scoffed the lot (8 small pieces).

I can't help thinking I have let him down very very badly and I am heartbroken. If I had called the vet when he first got the runs, the outcome might have been different. I don't think I will forgive myself for this.

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Curlewwoohoo · 06/08/2024 12:42

Ah op, I think you've done so well. I have a 17yo diabetic cat who needs injecting twice a day. I hope for a clear decision at the end. I think you've got that here.

sleekcat · 06/08/2024 12:46

I don't think for a moment you have let your cat down - you have cared for him very well and he has had a lovely long life. It just sounds as though it was his time to go. I really doubt stretching on the cold tiles was in any way related - my cats have been doing this on the patio slabs recently.

Pudmyboy · 06/08/2024 21:17

How are you @MellowYellow552 ?

3CustardCreams · 06/08/2024 21:27

You’ve given your cat such a loved happy life. You could not have done any more. It wouldn’t have made a difference. Really. From experience I know the only thing to lessen the grief sometimes is to have another pet to love on. I hope in time you might look into getting another pet.

Icanflyhigh · 06/08/2024 21:41

You've not let him down at all, don't beat yourself up x

MellowYellow552 · 06/08/2024 22:23

Thank you all for your kind messages and comments since I lost my cat yesterday. It really helps.

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Tarkan · 06/08/2024 22:27

Sending you lots of love @MellowYellow552 - I've been thinking of you. I hope you're doing as well as can be expected. Flowers

TheShellBeach · 07/08/2024 09:27

I'm so sorry @MellowYellow552 it's just the saddest thing. But the right thing, because you loved him.

Allthecatseverywhereallatonce · 07/08/2024 09:34

@MellowYellow552 I am so sorry about your old boy but, from what you have written I don't think you did anything wrong. Be kind to yourself 💐. It is so hard losing cats and you had him for such a long time. I bet he had the best life with you.

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