Took cat to vet for conjunctivitis and they looked at his teeth and said he has some signs of decay and needs dental work. He is a really timid skittish rescue cat, just taking him in a car is an ordeal for both of us starting with struggling to get him in the carrier, he cries all the way to the vet and pooes in the carrier because he hates the car so much. I've tried everything to get him more used to travelling and the carrier, nothing has worked. His teeth don't seem to bother him at all, eats and drinks completely normally. AIBU not to take him for dental work?