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Cat acting strangely - please help me understand?

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PurpleSky300 · 22/12/2023 03:31

I’m hoping someone can help me understand my cat’s behaviour a bit better.
She is an old girl (10+) who used to be stray so I don’t know a lot about her life before she came to me a year ago. She’s got a very gentle temperament, likes to be cuddled, eats well etc but she’s not very ‘active’ except at night, when she is needy. She is territorial and has favourite rooms, favourite items, etc.

To try and tire her out a bit at night, I’ve been trying different toys – she wasn’t very interested in the feather-on-a-string or treat balls so I got two dancing fish and I’m regretting it. She carries the fish everywhere, sleeps on it, grooms it, bites it and plays with it etc – and if I even go near it, she growls and just behaves in a really uncharacteristic way. She bit me earlier because I took the fish for a minute to charge it up. She gives these strange, prolonged sort of warning ‘moans’ if I come into the room when the fish is there and is starting to be hostile towards me and I’m baffled. She doesn’t sleep in her bed now unless the fish is in it. I’ve been reading that some of these toys have catnip inside and I think this one has it and I’m wondering if that is having an effect. I want to replace it just with a plain soft toy as I don’t like the effect on her but maybe I’m just not understanding?

OP posts:
Thighdentitycrisis · 22/12/2023 03:37

It’s the catnip. Is it new? I seem to remember the scent fades away after a while. You could just make the toy disappear when she’s sleeping

PurpleSky300 · 22/12/2023 03:41

Yeah, it's new. She's so attached to it that I would feel a bit mean taking the toy away, I guess?

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Brird · 22/12/2023 07:10

I think I'd replace it with a normal soft toy and maybe just rub a tiny bit of catnip on the new toy. I couldn't be doing with biting and wailing at me if I enter a room with the fish!

margotrose · 22/12/2023 08:23

Cats can resource guard just like dogs can, only it's generally nowhere near as dangerous due to their size.

Personally I wouldn't have any toy in the house that made my cats behave that way.

RogueFemale · 27/12/2023 19:25

I wouldn't be overly worried about her attachment to the Dancing Fish. What I'd do is let her get on with it and not take it away to recharge it. And the catnip element will fade soon enough. Rescue cats, and especially older rescues, may often have 'issues' we can't possibly understand the history of. But generally they will need a quiet and peaceful environment, and I wouldn't interfere with her love of the fish.

Cherry35 · 27/12/2023 19:46

Old cats don't like playing much, I tried many toys with mine and she didn't like any.

I would either leave the fish with her, without charging it or completely remove it when she's sleeping and replacing it with a soft toy. These fish do have catnip, but when I got mine, it came on a separate pouch for me to place inside the fish.

Since you adopted her old, there's no way to know what type of past traumas she has. When I rescued mine she took 6 months to settle and feel at home.

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