I have two cats that are approximately seven months old, I am unsure of the actual age as the breeder that I bought them from (they are siblings) told me they were eight weeks old when I bought them. However, the vet said there was no way they were as old as that and we’re probably more like six weeks.
I have a female and a male, both of had a persistent diarrhoea since they were brought home. I am reluctant to keep changing their food as this can apparently make that even worse, so I have gradually change the food over the last five months to things that I’ve been told are more suitable for their breed such as the lilies kitchen food as it is 100% green free, it appears to make no difference.
Both cats had not had their vaccinations when I got them, but had both courses of both jags once they came home.
The vet said she’s not sure what’s going on, but could possibly be cat Crohn’s disease.
The female cat has recently gone in for surgery and had 500 mils of fluid drained from her abdomen.
She absolutely hates me! The boy car is great. He accepts that when he’s had diarrhoea, I need to wipe his feet. I need to wipe his tummy and I need to clean up the mess. She however gets very angry scratches me, bites me, hisses at me and now appears to be scared whenever I go near her.
I don’t know what to do to make it better for her, after months of me, having to bath her wash the poo out of her fur, isolate her to a room because she was blowing diarrhoea everywhere. I think she has never gonna feel safe around me, as I’m the one who always seems to either isolate her or cause her grief.
How can I repair the kitty-mum, Relationship and make things better for her?