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Has the time come?

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CatMattress · 07/08/2023 21:20

My beloved black cat hasn't been eating. He's usually a piggy but the last week he's only been tempted by fish, fresh chicken, treats and a bit of beef mince, and this only after a steroid shot last week.

Today he's eaten nothing but a piece of ham and a dessert spoon of cooked mince. He wouldn't touch treats, chicken, fish and he's barely drinking. He's not washing and he's currently in my lap and not purring.

He's 14. It doesn't seem that old, but there's nothing discermibly wrong with him other than not eating and I don't think I want to subject him to a battery of tests and treatments.

We're visiting the vet again tomorrow. We'll take her advice. But I'm trying to prepare. Chances are: it's time. Isn't it?

This is the first time I've had to be the one making the call. God it hurts. My lovely boy is such a snuggly chap. He's been my comfort through so much. When my ex left and the bed felt too empty he got in and let me spoon him so I wasn't alone. His purrs soothed so much pain. Now the absence of them causes almost as much.

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CatMattress · 07/08/2023 21:50

He's just thrown up all of what little he's eaten today

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Toddlerteaplease · 07/08/2023 21:55

Prepare for the worst hope for the best. If it is the worst. Think now about how you want it to be. I did and it really helped that I did t have to make decisions when the vets asked.
Hopefully he's just picked up a bug and is just feeling a bit off. Will keep our paws crossed.

CatMattress · 08/08/2023 07:33

He's spent all night in bed with me. He even purred for a bit. He's cuddled up against my arm right now. Sweet boy.

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Toddlerteaplease · 08/08/2023 09:02

Let us know how it gets on.

CatMattress · 08/08/2023 13:56

He woke up pretty hungry. Had some chicken, some water and then some pouch cat food and a bit more pouch later. He's drinking more than usual still but it seems like he has a bit more bounce back so I cancelled the vet's appointment.

I'm not certain this is a total turn around, but it's a stay of execution for now and we'll see how he does.

Thank you for caring. This is the hardest bit of letting an animal into your heart and it was tearing me up.

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