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Nightmare Cat

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user1473878824 · 13/06/2023 21:31

I am at my wits end and I’m not sure there’s anything I CAN do but in the hope someone might be able to suggest something, anything, thought I would post. My poor 10 year old bit of an idiot is being bullied by the most nightmare cat I have ever met. We’ll call him Micky, because that’s his name and I’m very happy to put him.

Since we moved into our house last year we have been invaded by a ginger terrorist. He is desperate to get inside the house: we have to have all the ground floor windows shut and all the skylights on the side and front single extension because otherwise he gets in. He once leaped up and scared the life out of me by coming in the first floor bathroom window when the top was open while I was cleaning my teeth. I’ve been woken up twice by him in the house and our cat screaming and terrified. This wasn’t ideal but when he was a big kitten he was quite submissive. Now he is horrible.

He caught her in the garden and attacked her. Throws himself at the French doors growling and hissing when he’s in the garden and sees her. DP walked out into the back garden the other day and he just suddenly appeared and went for him and really sliced his ankle up, deep cuts. He’s not so bad with me. I spray him with the hose every time I see him. He doesn’t care.

I met his owner last year when he cornered my cat on next door’s extension roof - both cats were yowling and the owner was trying to get him down. He was exasperated but jokey and told me he’d gone into a child’s window, got on their bunk bed and scratched them. I didn’t find this quite so hilarious. He’s getting more and more aggressive.

I looked out of the window the other day and he was on top of a car catching flies and playing and it was quite sweet. Until one of the neighbours walked past and he tried to bite him!

what can we do? He’s a roaming cat and they’re obviously not going to keep him in but I can’t think of anything else that would work. We can’t have the garden doors open in this lovely weather, we can’t let our cat outside without worrying and she loves being outside and it’s making me so sad for her. It’s making me sad for me we can’t open any bloody windows!

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VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 13/06/2023 23:02

Can you build a catio for your cat?

user1473878824 · 13/06/2023 23:24

@VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia Unfortunately we’re renting. And she likes to go on a mini wander too, she was a flat cat for seven years and now outside is her favourite thing. She was absolutely fine in our last place. A few normal run ins with other cats, but could just be outside all the time and go on an adventure for a couple of hours. I feel very sad for her.

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caringcarer · 13/06/2023 23:27

My son has a bully Bengal cat. It goes out but doesn't leave his garden. If another cat, so much as passes by his garden on the bottom wall he goes for it. He has been neutered but my son says he is just territorial and protecting his territory. I feel sorry for his neighbours cat though. It is a small tabby female and it looks terrified of my son's bully cat. I told my son he should keep him in but he says as long as he is in his own garden he won't keep him in.

RoseBucket · 13/06/2023 23:28

We had this with our neighbours cat, also ginger. I chucked water at him every time, it took about a week but now if he dares to jump on the fence I just walk towards him and he legs it.

user1473878824 · 13/06/2023 23:41

caringcarer · 13/06/2023 23:27

My son has a bully Bengal cat. It goes out but doesn't leave his garden. If another cat, so much as passes by his garden on the bottom wall he goes for it. He has been neutered but my son says he is just territorial and protecting his territory. I feel sorry for his neighbours cat though. It is a small tabby female and it looks terrified of my son's bully cat. I told my son he should keep him in but he says as long as he is in his own garden he won't keep him in.

Have to say it’s his garden so I’m with your son!

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user1473878824 · 13/06/2023 23:41

RoseBucket · 13/06/2023 23:28

We had this with our neighbours cat, also ginger. I chucked water at him every time, it took about a week but now if he dares to jump on the fence I just walk towards him and he legs it.

I’m very jealous as this have been going on since May last year!

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Mumsnut · 14/06/2023 00:12

Maybe the Maine Coon kitten will grow into an enormous and protective sidekick for your girl, and terrify Micky away?

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