For the past three years my cat has been peeing on our bed and the sofas. He’s 14. We’ve been to the vet numerous times. He’s had an operation for struvite crystals, and every time we go, they just say that his bladder has “sand” in it. He’s on a special diet permanently and medication but it doesn’t seem to have any effect, and the vets just say that that’s all they can do.
We have another cat, and they tolerate each other but don’t really get on, and I know the other cat can stress him sometimes, which probably doesn’t help. This morning he went to use his tray, but freaked out because DH was in the bathroom, and he ran off and peed on the sofa. We have three litter trays, with different litter in them, so he has a choice of when and where.
I don’t know what to do. I love him so much - he’s the best cat I’ve ever had. But we’re about to do a long move, which will involve a flight, which will also traumatise him. I don’t want to have him put down, but equally I don’t want to live with everything smelling of cat piss for the next however many years.