Toots has coexisted tolerated my dc all these years. She’s younger than my kids so has essentially grown up with them but still bared the burden of having these two extra weird people.
Usually, the most she ever interacted with them was either sleeping on their beds, meowing at dd for food (it’s her job to feed her), or occasionally taking pets.
However, it was my dd’s birthday last week. She turned 10. Suddenly, she was now accepted by Toots. On that day, she started laying on DD’s lap and has never stopped. It’s like a switch has flicked in her head and gone “now she’s an acceptable age to want”
How weird is that