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Dilemma re elderly cat

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DorisParchment · 26/02/2023 13:11

We live overseas and are relocating to U.K. in the summer. I have an elderly cat - he’s a rescue, so don’t know his exact age, but think at least 14. He’s on blood pressure tablets and medication for struvite crystals in his bladder - which means he has periodic episodes of incontinence, and he’s on a special diet. The vet also thinks he is going senile. He shouts all the time if he is left alone.

The U.K. has banned the import of “commercial pets” from this country (it was a source of rescue dogs and cats). No airline will fly him direct to U.K. as a result of this, despite the fact that he’s my pet. There are companies that drive to U.K. with animals, but due to the market for rescue pets drying up, these are now limited and infrequent. They also take 3-4 days, and I am not sure they would take an animal on medication.

He is my best cat, and I am his human. I am stressing because I don’t know how I am going to get him home, or if a stressful journey for him is the right thing to do. He’s not in pain (as far as we can tell), but is obviously not going to get any better. My dilemma is, do I put him through the stress of a long journey back to U.K. or should I consider “putting him to sleep” before we leave. I love him so much, I can’t bear the thought of life without him, but equally don’t want to cause him any more stress. We’ve even looked at chartering a private plane to fly him back, but the cost is prohibitive.

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Poisonrunningthroughmyveins · 26/02/2023 13:18

Is there someone you could trust to look after him if you let them adopt him? If not (or maybe even if!) it probably would be kinder for him to be PTS.
I love my cat but some of the cat rescue videos I see upset me so much. There are many instances where it would be kinder to put the poor cat to sleep rather than put it through gruelling treatment to extend its life or to have it sit, depressed, in a shelter for 18months after its owner has died. I know it’s a heartbreaking decision but it may be kinder for your cat.

GodspeedJune · 26/02/2023 13:21

No I wouldn’t PTS for this. If you reach out to some animal charities they may be able to add him to their load for a fee. Animals are still being regularly transported to the UK like this.

QuestionableMouse · 26/02/2023 13:22

Can you try a smaller trip to a totally new place to see how he copes? Maybe a night or two in a pet friendly hotel? If he's very distressed then i think you have an answer, but if he copes okay, you can review options?

Where are you flying from? Could you fly into France etc and get the ferry across?

Freysimo · 26/02/2023 13:36

I think the move would be very stressful for an elderly sick cat and I doubt he would be happy if you left him. I would pts. He's obviously been well loved and looked after, so don't feel guilty

itsthefinalcountdown1 · 26/02/2023 13:36

You're saying there are companies that could drive him, but you're unsure about his medication. Have you not made enquires? Could you not drive him?

I wouldn't PTS if he's not in pain. He's just old. You're his human.

I couldn't move without my cats, I'd do everything to find a way to get them home with me.

gingerpurrfect · 26/02/2023 14:31

Back in 2016 I flew from Egypt into Brussels with my 2 cats, they were even in the cabin with me rather than the hold so I had eyes on them the entire time. At Brussels I was met by a family member and we drove back to the UK via the Channel Tunnel. All paperwork was checked at Calais in a matter of minutes, it was incredibly straightforward. If this route is still an option, I highly recommend it.

DorisParchment · 26/02/2023 16:34

I don’t want someone to adopt him and I don’t want him to go to a shelter. I don’t think anyone would want a mildly incontinent cat anyway.

@itsthefinalcountdown1 the transport companies have just said ”we would have to decide on that nearer the time”. One has said a flat out no to cats on medication.

@gingerpurrfect yes, I could fly with him in the cabin to Paris or Brussels, then overnight in a hotel and take the train to Calais and get picked up there by a minibus. That’s an option, but still quite a stressful one.

He doesn’t like moving or change. When we moved here he hid in the wardrobe for three weeks.

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