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Had to say goodbye to my beautiful boy this morning

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lookslikeitsgoingtosnow · 30/01/2023 21:31

I had to have my Frankie put to sleep this morning. He was just 2 months shy of being 16. I found him as a 4 week old kitten on the side of the road in Cyprus, saved him from certain death, not that he was ever grateful!

He had many scrapes in his life including being bitten by a snake, and run over twice. His size is what saved him each time he was 7.5kgs in his prime, not fat just a very big boy. Sadly he was diagnosed with cancer 2 years ago and given 3 months to live. He managed to fight it until today.

He wasn't an affectionate cat, quite grumpy and cranky actually, and everything was on his terms! He did become a lap cat over the last 3 months though so I'm grateful for that and the extra time we were able to have with him. This is the first time in almost 24 years I haven't a cat in the house, it feels so empty. Pic on left is from the day I found him, and on the right is one of the last I took.

Had to say goodbye to my beautiful boy this morning
OP posts:
MyCatsSlave · 30/01/2023 21:35

Oh I am so sorry. What a handsome boy, sounds like he had a fantastic life with you.

ColonelNobbyNobbs · 30/01/2023 21:39

Beautiful boy. ❤️

Nsky62 · 30/01/2023 21:40

Sending lots of love 💕

familyissues12345 · 30/01/2023 21:43

Oh my goodness what a gorgeous boy, but it looks could kill?!

RIP Frankie x

Battlecat98 · 30/01/2023 21:47

Ah he is very cute, I love a grumpy cat. It's always hard to say goodbye. RIP Frankie.

RandomMess · 30/01/2023 21:50
Flowers
DomesticShortHair · 30/01/2023 21:50

Sleep well, Frankie. A very handsome boy. I know it’s incredibly hard right now, but thanks to you, he had a life worth living. So as well as feeling sad, please let a little bit of you feel satisfied that you did an important job, and done it well. All the way to the end, too. X

Tilllly · 30/01/2023 21:51

Oh bless you, it's heartbreaking but you did the right thing for him - from start to finish

And grumpy as he was, he'll know he was loved

Toddlerteaplease · 31/01/2023 05:27

He was a magnificent beast!

RosesAndHellebores · 31/01/2023 21:56

Flowers with love. What a darling boy.

Mercyp · 01/02/2023 09:19

Rip, Frankie and so sorry OP. You gave him the best life. I bet he was grateful and loved you for rescuing him. He probably thought he was giving you thanks by living with you.

ifonly4 · 01/02/2023 17:02

So sorry to hear your news. He was a lovely boy. Funny how we totally accept them on their own terms. You obviously gave him a loving home, which is the best any cat could want - as hard as it is right now.

Nannyfannybanny · 01/02/2023 17:05

He was absolutely beautiful. My last cat died 2006, I really miss having one. I had my little toy dog who would have been 18 in march PTS last Friday. I keep forgetting he's not here. He was my cat substitute.

newbeggins · 01/02/2023 17:13

What a handsome chap! Wishing you some peace whilst you grieve xx

IheardYouButDontWantToAnswer · 01/02/2023 17:15

So sorry for your loss. When we love our cats, it hurts so much when they go. Your boy had a lovely life with you, and was so loved. x

GizaBiza · 01/02/2023 17:22

So sorry for your loss. Absolutely gorgeous boy.

lookslikeitsgoingtosnow · 02/02/2023 10:58

Thanks for all your lovely comments. It's been 3 days now and it's so hard getting used to him not being here. I WFH & he didn't interact much with me during the day (apart from when he wanted food of course!) but I knew he was there. The house feels very empty & quiet without him, I keep expecting to see him in his usual sleeping spots. I'm having him cremated so he'll be back home with me next week. I'm slowly putting his stuff away but can't bring myself to move his bed out the kitchen yet. I'll take all his leftover food to the local Cats Protection market stall as I know they will make good use of it.

OP posts:
Whiskeypowers · 02/02/2023 11:09

He was a lovely cat and you gave him a wonderful life.
It’s so hard to say goodbye to them. I still think about my little tabby girl who was almost thirteen when she died. I still have her sister who is fifteen and getting a bit frail now. Cats are very special creatures.

sorry for your loss 💐

Circumferences · 02/02/2023 12:38

So sorry for your loss.

We got Minnie cat cremated about 10 years ago now and still have her ashes in the writing desk.
We got a very lovely pot for the purpose so I recommend finding something you can treasure as much as you treasured Frankie.

I sewed a little red velvet pillow to keep the pot on as she did love a good pillow! She sleeps there for all eternity in with our pens and Christmas cards.

Pudmyboy · 03/02/2023 11:51

💐💐💐@lookslikeitsgoingtosnow ,
what a great life he had with you, how different it would have been if you weren't there to rescue him.
Sleep well magnificent boy.

Pudmyboy · 03/02/2023 11:53

Nannyfannybanny · 01/02/2023 17:05

He was absolutely beautiful. My last cat died 2006, I really miss having one. I had my little toy dog who would have been 18 in march PTS last Friday. I keep forgetting he's not here. He was my cat substitute.

Sorry for your loss too, Nanny 💐

Ludo19 · 03/02/2023 18:36

Frankie was such a magnificent looking boy. Sorry for your loss OP but you had almost 16yrs of his companionship. I'm sure you'll have plenty of memories of him xx

Belami · 03/02/2023 18:39

What a gorgeous boy, sending you so much love ❤️

Octopusmittens · 03/02/2023 18:40

What a beautiful boy. Take care of yourself OP 💐

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 04/02/2023 16:59

DomesticShortHair · 30/01/2023 21:50

Sleep well, Frankie. A very handsome boy. I know it’s incredibly hard right now, but thanks to you, he had a life worth living. So as well as feeling sad, please let a little bit of you feel satisfied that you did an important job, and done it well. All the way to the end, too. X

This . This by the bucketload .
When cats choose to let you take them into your life , you know they are only letting you borrow them.

Ours are non cuddly entitled little swine but I think they like living here , It suits their needs ,they say .

He's a lovely boy . In the sadness there will be many happy memories .

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