I don’t know if I’ve made a mistake, or if I need to give it some time. We’ve had our new kitten just over a week, she was a rehome as the owner could not cope, she’s 6 months old, not spayed, as the previous owner didn’t bother but is due to be done mid-December, that’s the only time the vet could fit us in. Our other cat is 12 in January. They both seem to tolerate each other but every night and morning, our kitten constantly chases our older cat and she’s spending more time hiding under our bed and going outside whereas before she was mostly indoor, if we keep the kitten in the kitchen she will mew constantly and scratch the door throughout the night and she has mastered how to open the door to get out. I always play with her for 20 minutes each night, she’s around me during the day too. This morning they were both up on their hind legs, pawing at each other, I’m not sure if they were playing or if fighting, as there were a few loud meows whilst this happened.
Any advice please?