This is a 'help, advice?' request from you experienced cat people!
We adopted 2 lovely rescue cats about 4 months ago, they have just started going outside after wintering indoors and getting used to the house for a few months. We now desperately need to do the flea treatment on the back of their necks; but we can't figure out how!!! They don't let us pick them up AT ALL, they are pretty feral tbh, and go totally crazy. My DH just tried with a thick coat on and newly purchased cat gloves, and had to let go in the end, our lovely boy was going sooooo wild.
They will let my DD's stroke them, but are super quick to dash off if they sense us coming towards them.
How can we get hold of these terrors without traumatising them?(and ourselves). Are we just being too soft? The only advice from vets etc seems to be just grab them - easier said than done!
(They are spayed/neutered and chipped btw)