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Cattery or cat sitter

68 replies

OkPedro · 24/01/2022 16:45

Hi all.. I have an 18month old boy. I would like to go on holiday this year with my two children. However I really don't to leave my cat 😓 I know I'm being ridiculous and I can't stop doing things altogether. Anyway has anyone left their young cat in a cattery or had a cat sitter for a week? My boy is a nervous cat and is unsure of new people and surroundings.. we moved house in October and it took him 6 weeks to settle in, he cried a lot!
Any advice for me? Thanks

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BrunoJenkins · 24/01/2022 21:22

I'm surprised so many people have the cat sitter come twice a day. Ours comes every other day because we have an automatic feeder, the cats have each other for company, & they're ragdolls so they don't need to be let in or out.

icedancerlenny · 24/01/2022 21:32

We use trusted house sitters and it’s been great.

OkPedro · 24/01/2022 21:36

I didn't include photo! This is Fudge ☺️

Black cats can be so hard to photograph

Cattery or cat sitter
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LiveFromNewYork · 24/01/2022 21:40

Most cats just absolutely love routine so usually prefer a cat sitter

fairylightsandwaxmelts · 24/01/2022 21:54

@BrunoJenkins

I'm surprised so many people have the cat sitter come twice a day. Ours comes every other day because we have an automatic feeder, the cats have each other for company, & they're ragdolls so they don't need to be let in or out.
Don't you want the litter trays dealt with daily?

I'm honestly surprised a cat sitter would take a job knowing the animals would go without any care or attention for 48 hours - what if one of them got sick? Shock

AwkwardPaws27 · 24/01/2022 22:04

@BrunoJenkins

I'm surprised so many people have the cat sitter come twice a day. Ours comes every other day because we have an automatic feeder, the cats have each other for company, & they're ragdolls so they don't need to be let in or out.
Farmers are legally required to check livestock daily for their welfare. I don't see why cats should be checked less frequently?

One of mine has twice daily medication so we have two visits, but even without that I'd want them checked at least once per day in case they became unwell or couldn't access their food or water.

BrunoJenkins · 24/01/2022 22:07

@fairylightsandwaxmelts Wow are you always this judgmental? They've never been sick in their lives & have plenty of litter trays with clumping litter.

It's an option on the website so I don't think it's that unusual Hmm

OkPedro · 24/01/2022 22:27

I posted a pic of my cat 😸

But I agree even if your cats are usually well what if they became unexpectedly ill or had an accident? I would expect a cat to be checked on at least once a day

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BrunoJenkins · 24/01/2022 22:41

@OkPedro

I posted a pic of my cat 😸

But I agree even if your cats are usually well what if they became unexpectedly ill or had an accident? I would expect a cat to be checked on at least once a day

By that logic you shouldn't leave them at all then. If I was worried them getting sick or having an accident then I wouldn't even want them left unattended for a couple of hours, never mind 24!

But I'm not worried because I have assessed the risks and they are tiny.

The risks that most cats' owners take by letting them outside are far greater than the risks I take by leaving my indoor cats alone for 48 hours.

WondrousAcorn · 24/01/2022 22:41

Pet sitter - our cat won’t eat at the cattery. I feel the cattery is technically safer for her as she doesn’t go out so no exit if there was a fire, but that is highly unlikely given I unplug everything that can be unplugged before going away. For us, the benefits of her being in her home environment and the petsitter opening and closing curtains and generally keeping an eye on things are really valuable.

Sparklingbrook · 24/01/2022 22:42

I was asked to look after my Mum and Dad's cat for 48 hours. I went round 4 times and only saw the cat one of those times. The food would go so I knew she was coming in and out, but I didn't like that I hadn't seen her.

fairylightsandwaxmelts · 24/01/2022 22:48

[quote BrunoJenkins]@fairylightsandwaxmelts Wow are you always this judgmental? They've never been sick in their lives & have plenty of litter trays with clumping litter.

It's an option on the website so I don't think it's that unusual Hmm[/quote]
Not judgmental at all - I'm giving my opinion just like you Wink

I'm just shocked any professional pet sitter would take a job that meant the animals are left totally unchecked for 48hours.

And just because your cats have never been sick before, doesn't mean they'll never get sick lol.

I mean, how would you feel if one of them ended up seriously unwell because they were just left alone for two days? Confused

fairylightsandwaxmelts · 24/01/2022 22:51

Oh, and I don't think it's comparable to never leaving them at all.

Cats can go downhill really fast - mine once had a urinary blockage. If I hadn't taken him to the vets when I did, he'd have died - blockages can become fatal in less than 24h.

A twice daily check would pick up on any issues and get the cat to the vet before it got even more unwell.

deathofastrawberry · 24/01/2022 22:53

@OkPedro I wouldn't be comfortable with someone I don't know staying overnight so I think I'll get them to call in twice a day to do her food, water and litter trays. My cat is quite antisocial most of the time anyway Grin If your cat likes constant company then maybe get someone to stay overnight? Might be more reassuring for you if someone's always there with him.

Clymene · 24/01/2022 22:55

@BrunoJenkins

I'm surprised so many people have the cat sitter come twice a day. Ours comes every other day because we have an automatic feeder, the cats have each other for company, & they're ragdolls so they don't need to be let in or out.
Mine comes every day. It's a bit gross to have them come every other day when your cats use litter trays to be honest - cats like to be clean.

And yes, I'm judging you Smile

BrunoJenkins · 24/01/2022 22:57

@fairylightsandwaxmelts Sad obviously but it's hardly likely. Indoor cats live long and safe lives for an average of 10-15 years. There are no hazards in their environment so I'm comfortable leaving them alone it in. & they wouldn't appreciate a stranger being there longer than needed.

Im sure I'd feel differently if we had a cat flap though. How would you feel if your cat got ran over, caught a deadly illness or ate something poisonous? The average life expectancy of outdoor cats is just 2-5 years. So yeah of course their cat sitter needs to come check on them more often - the chances of the cat being ill or injured are so much higher!

Clymene · 24/01/2022 22:58

My cat sitter always sees my cat because he is a fat greedy git and is always waiting for her when she arrives. He likes to bat (with claws out) and bite your ankles if he's too hungry so it's safer not to leave him too long Shock

Clymene · 24/01/2022 22:59

[quote BrunoJenkins]@fairylightsandwaxmelts Sad obviously but it's hardly likely. Indoor cats live long and safe lives for an average of 10-15 years. There are no hazards in their environment so I'm comfortable leaving them alone it in. & they wouldn't appreciate a stranger being there longer than needed.

Im sure I'd feel differently if we had a cat flap though. How would you feel if your cat got ran over, caught a deadly illness or ate something poisonous? The average life expectancy of outdoor cats is just 2-5 years. So yeah of course their cat sitter needs to come check on them more often - the chances of the cat being ill or injured are so much higher! [/quote]
That's nonsense! It's 14 years.

I've had cats my whole life and I've only lost one to a car. All the rest lived until they were 19 or more.

MrsBertBibby · 24/01/2022 23:05

Sitter for ours, she works at their vets, so she looks after them very well, and they adore her. Plus we know the house is checked daily, and any parcels get taken in.

Emmelina · 24/01/2022 23:08

We go with a pet sitter for our 3 cats, goldfish, gerbils, bearded dragon! Much less unsettling.

AwkwardPaws27 · 24/01/2022 23:09

The average life expectancy of outdoor cats is just 2-5 years
That's feral cats - not owned pet cats who have outdoor access.
Blocked bladders are more common in male cats, & the risk increases if they are indoor only, overweight or fed only dry foods.

tootsierubs · 24/01/2022 23:20

Cat sitter. I put my cat in a cattery the first time we went away and he'd almost lost his claws scratching to get out 😒 worse though was he got so stressed he ended up with urinary stones and it nearly killed him! Definitely cat sitter, we've found a lovely one who adores cats and he was perfectly happy when we returned.

fairylightsandwaxmelts · 25/01/2022 06:50

@BrunoJenkins my cats are indoor cats too. But I'd still never, ever leave them for 48 hours without having someone check in on them.

Yes, it's fairly unlikely that they'll get sick but I'd never forgive myself if something happened and the reason my cat died was because I was too cheap/couldn't be bothered to pay for more regular visits.

I have had two male cats over the years suffer from blockages/crystals - it's not all that rare and if it does happen and you don't get them seen, the likelihood is that they will die or at least get very very sick.

My sitter comes twice a day - she feeds them, makes sure they have fresh water, sorts their litter trays, vacuums any litter they may have kicked somewhere, fusses the middle cat (the others aren't bothered by people) and makes sure they're healthy
and happy. £15 a day is small price to pay for that peace of mind imo Smile

BrunoJenkins · 25/01/2022 08:21

@fairylightsandwaxmelts You put a lot of faith in your cat sitter, a person who presumably has no relevant qualifications and doesn't know the baseline behaviours of your cats. If they got sick while you were away would you blame yourself, the sitter or just chalk it up to bad luck? I'd certainly do the latter because I just wouldn't expect the sitter to notice subtle behaviour changes and make medical interventions, regardless of how often they're there. They're there to change litter and give them a cuddle, they're not a vet.

AwkwardPaws27 · 25/01/2022 10:11

[quote BrunoJenkins]@fairylightsandwaxmelts You put a lot of faith in your cat sitter, a person who presumably has no relevant qualifications and doesn't know the baseline behaviours of your cats. If they got sick while you were away would you blame yourself, the sitter or just chalk it up to bad luck? I'd certainly do the latter because I just wouldn't expect the sitter to notice subtle behaviour changes and make medical interventions, regardless of how often they're there. They're there to change litter and give them a cuddle, they're not a vet. [/quote]
I do put quite a bit of faith in mine - I chose to look for a catsitter with experience, not a neighbours teenager, for this reason.

One of my cats has twice daily medication so I need someone catsavvy anyway. My old sitter was a qualified veterinary nurse - sadly she moved, but my current sitter has looked after ours over the last 3-4 years & is very diligent.

I don't expect a full medical examination (obviously!) but a sitter should be able to recognise a significant medical need which may indicate a serious issue such as a blocked bladder (continuously trying to urinate with producing any urine, licking lots, vocalising when trying to toilet), saddle thrombus (extreme pain, dragging hindlegs), serious eye injuries (inability to open an eye, lots of discharge etc).

Will they pick up everything I would? Probably not, but if they see my cats for 30 mins twice a day they are more likely to notice a more subtle issue than a quick refill of feeders every other day, so I'm happy to pay extra and have these checks.

Ultimately its each to their own but there are great catsitters out there and it's not unusual to have twice daily visits.