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My cat drowned in neighbours pond - I'm heartbroken

77 replies

Dappled · 04/01/2022 18:45

That's it really. I just feel the need to say it somewhere.
He was called Moon. He was only 14 months old and so vital and strong, he practically vibrated with energy and alive-ness. I just can't get my head around this sudden, awful loss.
He was bred by my SIL and her children adored him and his upbringing meant that he was the friendliest loveliest lap cat and so gentle with humans. Half Siamese and very talkative, I would have long 2 way conversations with him.
He only came into our house in March. We didn't even have a year with him.
It's fair to say our other 2 cats hated him - he was strong and bold and wanted to be top cat, so he was a bit much for them.
He was only one month in age apart from our dog Bramble, they grew up together and were totally in love with each other. They were like a cat-dog relationship from a Disney movie. Watching them play together was amazing - they were so agile and fast, the dog racing madly in circles around him and the cat waiting ninja-like for just the right moment to leap onto her back. They would sleep together all the time, often squeezing into one small bed, Moon with one leg wrapped around Bramble, like an embrace. He would often come down the road with us on dog walks. I thought they would grow old together. It's so unfair. Bramble is so sad.
I've been to see the pond. A 1970's/80's remnant, an old 8 foot deep koi pond built by a previous owner of the house. With raised sides and almost no means of escape. It's literally a stones throw from our house and I had no idea it was there. I feel so sad to think of him so close to home, struggling in the water.
I'm just heartbroken.

My cat drowned in neighbours pond - I'm heartbroken
My cat drowned in neighbours pond - I'm heartbroken
My cat drowned in neighbours pond - I'm heartbroken
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AuntieJoyce · 04/01/2022 18:47

So sorry @Dappled he was a beautiful boy. Lovely pictures. Sorry for your loss Flowers

CaMePlaitPas · 04/01/2022 18:48

I'm really sorry for your loss x

StonewalledNameChange · 04/01/2022 18:49

Oh I'm so sorry for your loss Flowers What a sad story, and what beautiful pictures.

TheLongRider · 04/01/2022 18:51

Flowers I'm so sorry. Thank you for the lovely stories about him.

Clymene · 04/01/2022 18:52

I'm so very sorry. What an utter tragedy

I hope your neighbour realise now his incredibly dangerous their pond is and either fill it in or add in a sloping side for creatures to get out.

skyblueone · 04/01/2022 18:53

Oh how sad, I'm so sorry. Be kind to yourself.
The picture of them on the doormat is brilliant.

Lochnesslassie · 04/01/2022 18:53

So very sorry this happened. He was gorgeous, I can easily see the Siamese in him, I had 2 when I was younger. Poor Bramble will be fine given time. Take care x

OnlyTheTitosaurusOfTheIceberg · 04/01/2022 18:55

I’m so sorry, that’s gut wrenching. What a lovely heartfelt tribute to your beautiful boy though.

chunkiest · 04/01/2022 18:57

I am sorry for you loss and relate to the feeing that Moon was taken to soon (my two year old died after only two years)

Try to think of the lovely tome you had with him, it may have been short but wonderful!

What a beauty 🥰

Motnight · 04/01/2022 19:00

What a fantastic character Moon was, and a gorgeous looking boy too.

I am so sorry for your loss.

Flubber88 · 04/01/2022 19:10

So sorry lovely feline. I know how you feel xx

Whywonttheyletmeusemyusername · 04/01/2022 19:14

I also know how you feel, and I'm so very sorry for your loss xxx

OnwardsAndSideways1 · 04/01/2022 19:44

Aw, he was adorable. Beautiful pictures. So sorry for you, you really will need to be kind to yourself these coming few days, hugs for you.

Pudmyboy · 04/01/2022 19:45

What a terrible tragedy, I am so sorry for your loss, and for Bramble too. I can understand your heartbreak. I've given my own furbaby a cuddle on reading this (he wasn't impressed).
Flowers

Fluffycloudland77 · 04/01/2022 19:59

I’m so sorry,there’s no good way to lose them but that’s particularly upsetting.

Dappled · 04/01/2022 21:13

When I brought his body home I laid it on the sofa and the dog came and lay down facing it, touching his nose every so often with hers and nuzzling his ears, and then just rested her head on her paws and lay down with him for some time. So I think she understands what has happened on some level; at least he didn't just disappear for her.

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Vinorosso74 · 04/01/2022 21:20

So sorry, this is so tragic. I have heard letting other cats and dogs see the body helps them understand and it sounds like Bramble does.

MabelFurball · 04/01/2022 21:22

Oh love I am so sorry to read of this. Please can you make sure something is done about the pond so other creatures don't get stuck there. If it was me I would be so angry that he lost his life this way when there could have been a bit of wood set up to help. So very sorry for you all and the loss of your beautiful cat.

Ovenaffray · 04/01/2022 21:23

I am so sorry x

BeLessMe · 04/01/2022 21:25

I’m so sorry for your loss.
Heartbreaking. So foolish of them to have a pond with no means of escape. Sad Flowers

joopy79 · 04/01/2022 21:29

Flowers what a beautiful pair. I'm so sorry for your loss

CliveAntichrist · 04/01/2022 21:32

So so sorry and sad to read this 🥲

RIP beautiful Moon xx

TheAntiGardener · 04/01/2022 21:32

What an awful thing to happen - I’m so sorry for you and your gorgeous cat.

Hope the neighbour will address this so it can’t happen again.

Stiffcondomhat · 04/01/2022 21:33

I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP MOON 💗 🌈

violetbunny · 04/01/2022 21:36

That's absolutely horrific, my eyes are welling up just thinking about it. I'm so sorry for your loss Thanks