A huge magnificent wild Tom turned up about 9 months ago spitting and fighting our dog for food. I borrowed a trap from a charity and eventually caught and had him neutered and vaccinated( he is not chipped) .He disappeared and then after a few months was back and all loving and my kids started playing with him . Now he's coming inside but both my husband and I are itching like mad. I won't give up on him but wonder if we will eventually get used to it.. I have had cats before but they were burmese crosses and didn't shed as much.