Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

The litter tray

Join our community of cat lovers on the Mumsnet Cat forum for kitten advice and help with cat behaviour.

My lovely feline visitor

6 replies

HesterShaw1 · 02/10/2021 13:32

For about a year now I have had a male tabby visiting me. I noticed him before my old girl died two years ago - they had enormous mutual hatred so I wasn't too friendly towards him. However now I am officially catless, he's been more and more persistent. Last summer I had a BBQ and saw a sneaky paw swipe one of the mackerel off the table and that was it. He was waiting in the garden the next evening for more tasty mackerel (and even brought a friend) and he's been a bit of a fixture ever since.

I've found out he lives in one of the houses over the back, which is also home to about four very yappy terriers. Now I KNOW it's really not the done thing to "adopt" someone's cat when it already has a home, but he's a free ranging boy, and I work a lot from home. Over the summer while the door has been open he's just been wandering in. He stays later and later, and while I do have a cat flap, I have it locked, and I always put him out before bed. Him staying the night would be too much! In the mornings he's there, peering wistfully through the catflap and scratching it maddeningly until I let him in.

Here's the issue. For about a year, his left eye hasn't looked right , the upper lid being rather swollen. I often bathe it with warm water on a kitchen towel, but recently it's got a lot worse. There's a lot of pink inflammation on the upper and lower lid, and it's very weepy. Poor boy :( I finally scooped him up the other day and knocked on their door - I don't know these people and they didn't look too pleased to see me there holding their cat and pointing out that his eye needs attention. They said they'd take him to the vet. That was about ten days ago and nothing has changed - they eye is getting worse, and he gets ever more determined to take over my house.

Do I take him myself? That would really piss them off, and I imagine it would be very expensive and ongoing. They don't seem like the kind of people who would appreciate me knocking on the door and challengingly saying "So how did you get on at the vet?" He's such a sweet natured boy, and otherwise appears to be in excellent nick, despite being fourteen. I don't know if you can see how swollen it is on the pic?

My lovely feline visitor
OP posts:
thecatneuterer · 02/10/2021 13:41

Christ. That needs immediate treatment.

I would either a) take him to the vet myself and sort it out (you mustn't mention he isn't yours in that case - say you've just adopted him)

or

b) knock on their door and say he must go to the vet this week and if he doesn't you're reporting them to the RSPCA for cruelty (which is something you could actually do).

If (b) then they probably still won't take him and, if the RSPCA do get involved, it's likely to take ages and they may end up taking him away.

So, on balance, I would go for (a)

HesterShaw1 · 02/10/2021 13:44

Oh bugger, really? :(

The RSPCA are a load of shit. I'll say he's a stray I've been feeding. Though he might be microchipped.

What do you think is wrong with it?

OP posts:
thecatneuterer · 02/10/2021 13:49

Don't tell the RSPCA he's a stray. Then they probably won't do anything at all. Plus he could be chipped. And in the unlikely event they do something, that something could be to PTS. The RSPCA are though quite hot on prosecuting cruelty cases, so if you do contact them it must be the truth.

I don't know what's wrong - it could be so many things. It looks so bad it might need to be removed, but it might be sorted with just a lot of antibiotic ointment - it all depends. But it is definitely causing a lot of pain at the moment and needs urgent attention.

Don't suppose you're in London?

HesterShaw1 · 02/10/2021 13:55

No I'm a very long way from London!

To be honest, it doesn't seem to cause him any pain at all. He doesn't paw at it, he doesn't flinch or growl or scratch when I bathe it. He's incredibly sweet natured and affectionate.

I'm not a fan of the RSPCA to be honest. At all.

I think I might go round there again and just say he's been over a lot and ask if they did take him to the vet. And then if they say they haven't, that if they don't I will. Because I have showed a photo to a vet friend (bit of a lie but, hey) who says that it looks very serious and it's possible he could lose the eye.

I suspect they have so many vet expenses with those bloody dogs that the cat comes a long way down the list, and because he's 14, they're just hoping he might die before they have to deal with it.

Why can't people bloody look after their animals? Angry

OP posts:
thecatneuterer · 02/10/2021 14:00

That's not how cats show that an eye is causing pain. And they mask it very well. That is causing severe pain.

I'm also not a fan of them, but they do prosecute cruelty cases - and not treating this is cruelty.

Yes I think that's the best plan.

HesterShaw1 · 02/10/2021 14:32

Thanks for your advice @thecatneuterer.

Shit, I'm horrified actually. And feeling very guilty. Poor boy.

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread