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New Kitten yells so loud it's actually quite disruptive?

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ElspethFlashman · 17/08/2021 20:43

Putting the kids to bed. New Kitten has been for the last week following us upstairs and yelling loudly outside their bedroom doors as we're trying to tell them their stories. (and it's really not miaowing, it's yelling!)

And then when they're settled down and trying to go to sleep, it's still at it. So they end up coming out and asking is the cat OK, which just makes the cat think it's working and the cycle continues. Just roaring it's head off on the landing throughout bedtime.

So tonight we basically shut the kitten in the living room downstairs to try and avoid this happening, especially as the kids were fighting and frankly we had a lot of rows to diffuse and cheekiness to battle. Not a good time to be yelled at from the floor.

Well.

You would swear the kitten was being murdered! The yelling went through the whole house!

And so I ended up going downstairs so he'd stop whilst DH stayed up to settle the kids. But the cat actually yells at you even when you're beside it until it does what it wants. So I was trying to make a cup of tea and the kitten was just at my feet ROARING at me. Turns out it wanted to be picked up and cuddled!

So then I put him down again to finish making the tea and he yells until I literally sit down on the sofa, when it immediately starts purring as loud as a jet engine and settles into my legs.

Tbh given my choice, I'd have stayed upstairs and read my book and tried to de-stress from the kids.

I don't really mind the cat being LOUD in itself, after all I used to have dogs before and they were loud as hell, but this bedtime disruption is really pretty something I'd like to nip in the bud pronto.

Any advice? Am I being thick and missing a really obvious solution?

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ElspethFlashman · 18/08/2021 08:31

He definitely won't just lie quietly on the kids beds BTW, we'd have done that if he was going to do that. He thinks it's playtime.

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Wimowehwimowehwimowehwimoweh · 18/08/2021 08:41

Oh he’s gorgeous. Look at his nose!
Adorable Smile

violetbunny · 18/08/2021 08:46

I also had a needy yelling kitten. Now I have a needy yelling adult cat.
Luckily I don't mind being his slave.

toughdaay · 18/08/2021 08:50

Aww poor little guy, he's only a baby. Let him in with you, what's the worst that can happen? He'll probably go to sleep on you and you can read in peace.

AdelindSchade · 18/08/2021 08:54

Have you tried one of those 'cat alone' apps on the tablet? Might keep him occupied for a bit. My cat liked that as a kitten. Dh did start however worrying he was having too much 'screen time'. Smile

ElspethFlashman · 18/08/2021 08:57

Can't have him on our bed, DH is mildly allergic and has allergic asthma.

As in mild enough that it's not triggered by him being in the house (and enjoys him) , but enough that it would be by a cat on the bed.

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AdelindSchade · 18/08/2021 08:58

He's so cute with his little pink nose.

ElspethFlashman · 18/08/2021 08:59

And the cat clearly doesn't mind sleeping downstairs so that's not a problem, it's that bedtime routine time that is frustrating.

My eldest has ADHD. And my youngest is going through a difficult "NO!" phase. We need chilled bedtimes.

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ElspethFlashman · 18/08/2021 09:01

A Cat Alone app? That's a new one. We have a smart TV but I don't think you can add any new apps to it, it's a bit shit. I'll check it out though.

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AdelindSchade · 18/08/2021 09:08

Needs to be on a tablet laid on the floor - it has mice and beasties running across that make noises and things when they touch them with their paw. Mine would stare at it for ages.

NapoleonOzmolysis · 18/08/2021 09:14

@AdelindSchade

Needs to be on a tablet laid on the floor - it has mice and beasties running across that make noises and things when they touch them with their paw. Mine would stare at it for ages.
Yes to it being on the floor. Our cat knocked our telly off onto the floor whilst smacking it when his Mice and Birds YouTube playlist was on. Still comes running whenever we press the Smart TV button on the new telly - and yells if we just watch iPlayer.
AdelindSchade · 18/08/2021 09:28

@NapoleonOzmolysis not funny about your tv but Grin about his mice and birds playlist

tcjotm · 18/08/2021 09:35

How old are your kids? Can the evening routine start with them reading the kitten a story downstairs? He just wants to be included! Mine calm down at the sound of my voice.

ElspethFlashman · 18/08/2021 10:01

They're 4 and 6. He cuddles up watching the Cbeebies bedtime story downstairs so is included the whole time. It's the audacity of us then going off to do something upstairs thats the problem!

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Shehasadiamondinthesky · 18/08/2021 12:44

I'd get a baby sling for it and treat it like a baby. I did with my tiny kitten Smoky years ago, he would simply cry all day if he wasn't in it.
A year later he wasn't interested in me at all, all he wanted to do was go off outside and beat up other cats.

Heartofglass12345 · 18/08/2021 16:25

Oh he is so cute. I know I would end up taking him up there, not helpful Grin

tcjotm · 18/08/2021 23:30

@ElspethFlashman

They're 4 and 6. He cuddles up watching the Cbeebies bedtime story downstairs so is included the whole time. It's the audacity of us then going off to do something upstairs thats the problem!
Yep, how dare you 😂
PainterInPeril · 19/08/2021 00:22

Maybe he was singing lullabies to your kids. You might need to give him singing lessons. It's not his fault he's tone deaf!Grin

ElspethFlashman · 19/08/2021 10:53

So I think we have a solution!

Last night DH left the telly on. We normally turn it off when we go upstairs of course.

We shut the living room door an not a peep out of him! Either the noise comforted him or it masked the noise of us upstairs.

I was absolutely delighted tbh.

And feel like a total dope that I didn't think of it before!

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AdelindSchade · 19/08/2021 13:27

Good stuff!

SimonJT · 19/08/2021 13:31

Mine is like this even though she is an old lady, remember cats have staff.

Pleased you had some progress, enjoy being a slave for the next 15 years!

YetAnotherSpartacus · 19/08/2021 14:17

Kitty was saying 'OY YOU STOOPIE HUMAN I WAS WATCHING THAT!!!'

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