We’ve had a cat for years. He’s mellow, kind of shy, good rat catcher (in the garden). He’s not a needy boy, very polite.
My adult daughter’s cat has come to live with us. Mostly this is great; he’s affectionate, friendly, mostly good with other cats. They are both males, roughly the same age. Newby has been with us for 3 months now.
The problem (as I see it) is that the Newby, when startled, hisses at the original cat. Original Cat looks sad about this and I feel it’s unfair as it was his home first. This happens if I’ve put down food for the newby and OC appears in the kitchen (to politely wait for dinner), and also if Newby is on the bed and OC jumps up on the bed to see me.
Can anything be done about this or is this less of a big deal to the cats than it is to me?