After he was missing for a couple of days we got him back and he had been visiting them for over two weeks [shock]. They thought they better feed him which is why he didn't come home. We kept him in for two days and nights and as soon as he'd had breakfast he was off to theirs [sad]. He's still there. Hasn't been home for tea. They think he is lovely. Don't want to keep him. What do we do? Dh says we can't keep going to get him but tbh I will tomorrow if he isn't home. He was crying to go out and it was upsetting. He's never done this before, he has come home late for food but never stayed away for four meals. Their food is nicer than ours but he's been ours for eight years plus [sad].