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Night night beautiful Alfie

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Benji13 · 30/06/2021 22:17

We lost our beloved boy Alfie on Monday evening and are all heartbroken.

Alf was just shy of 17 and has been a complete joy and given us so much love. He came at 8 weeks as a rescue kitten and has been our 2 boys best friend as they have grown up into men - they are devastated 😔
Alf was more like a dog than a cat and was so chilled and loving - he loved everything and everyone. We will miss his head bumps, taking chirrups, very loud purrs - he would purr when he saw you - and the love and joy he gave us in spades. We were blessed and there will never be another like him. We lost his best friend - our beautiful dog Ben to liver cancer in January so it’s been an awful year and the pain is just dreadful.

I hope we did the right thing it was such a bloody awful decision to make as he still looked beautiful and about 5! But Alf had been struggling with awful arthritis in his back legs for a year and his kidneys were starting to fail from the meds. He was sleeping more and more and I felt his dignity was beginning to go. He had spent the weekend at the vets in a drip trying to stem the kidney failure but it didn’t work - we felt we owed him the chance. When it was clear on Monday that hadn’t worked it was time to say goodbye, I feel so awful and guilty, god I miss our special big lad so so much 💔

Night night beautiful Alfie
Night night beautiful Alfie
Night night beautiful Alfie
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Fluffycloudland77 · 30/06/2021 22:22

No guilt needed, he lived a long life & looks very well cared for. It comes to us all eventually.

You had no choice.

MorriseysGladioli · 30/06/2021 22:26

Oh, he was an absolute beauty.
I'm so sorry for your loss, and it's awful when you have to make the decision.
Sleep tight Alfie.

Holyridonkulus · 30/06/2021 22:27

My heart goes out to you all

Sleep well Alfie ❤️

FictionalCharacter · 30/06/2021 22:29

What a gorgeous boy. So sorry for your loss. Ben too.

FVFrog · 30/06/2021 22:30

So sorry for your loss, he was indeed a beautiful cat Flowers

thebear1 · 30/06/2021 22:33

A beautiful boy, I hope you get comfort from the love you all gave him. I had to make a similar decision when my wonderful tabby was 16, it hurts your heart ❤

Cleverpolly3 · 30/06/2021 22:39

It’s so sad and incredibly hard. Please don’t feel guilty, you loved him for a lifetime.
Not sure you ever stop missing them. It’s a yea and a bit since I stood slumped over my little 12 year old cat as she was sent over the rainbow bridge. I think about her every day. But it’s with love and now as time goes on with a smile at how much of a little character she was.
They are never replaced
They never really leave you
Grief is love carrying on

He was a very handsome cat.
So sorry that you lost him and your dog too x

TheSpottedZebra · 01/07/2021 00:19

Gosh he is beautiful. And majestic!

I am so sorry for your loss, its an awful decision to have to make. But we do it because we love them.

SnuggledUpInABlanket · 01/07/2021 00:25

So beautiful. I'm sorry for your loss, it's so heartbreaking. If you are on FB join the Ralph site, there are lots of us there trying to make sense of it. It will take time for you to accept it, be kind to yourself Flowers

Enough4me · 01/07/2021 00:30

The photos are gorgeous, he clearly loved his best friend, loved his bed so had the run of the home as every cat should and home. He was clearly top cat and let you know it with his happy noises. It is sad, but you did the right thing all the way through Flowers

violetbunny · 01/07/2021 01:44

Oh, this made me cry. What a beautiful cat he was, and lucky to be blessed with an owner like you.

DedalusBloom · 01/07/2021 04:48

Sending you love and hugs. Alfie looks like he was a beautiful gentle soul. Such majestic floof!

We lost our boy to complications with FIV in January.

I found one of his catnip toys under the spare bed yesterday and sobbed like a baby.

You gave him the best life and you made the hardest decision precisely because you loved him so. It's the greatest gift we can give them and I know you wouldn't have made it lightly. He knew you all loved and cared for him and would have felt it right to the last.

Be kind to yourself StarThanksStar

RainyDay2020 · 01/07/2021 04:50

Sounds like you made the right decision for him. So sorry for your loss, you must all be heartbroken.

Mumdiva99 · 01/07/2021 05:17

What a gorgeous cat. Sorry for your loss.

Shehasadiamondinthesky · 01/07/2021 07:15

He is so beautiful, my heart is breaking for you Flowers Bear

MrsCatE · 02/07/2021 06:15

Absolutely beautiful cat. You obviously gave him the best possible life. Hand hold and Flowers

Gatekeeper · 02/07/2021 06:21

I'm so sorry, what a beautiful gentle soul he looked. You had to make a hard decision but the right one and the kindest one Flowers

Mia184 · 02/07/2021 20:44

What a handsome boy. Sorry for your loss.Flowers

hartof · 02/07/2021 20:51

Oh Alfie you beautiful boy 😻 sleep well and enjoy all the butterflies and treats over rainbow bridge 💔

Want2beme · 02/07/2021 21:17

Your words brought tears to my eyes. What an awful shame. He was gorgeous and sounds like he was an absolute delight. We've all struggled with the big decision. You helped him at the end. I'm always grateful that we can do that for them. So very sorry for your huge losses of Alfie & BenFlowers

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 02/07/2021 21:20

The worst decision for the best of reasons.

He was a beaut.

Thinking of you 🐾 🐾 Flowers

EcoCustard · 02/07/2021 21:25

So Sorry OP. What a beautiful boy. The right decision but the hardest. I had the same guilt (and still do at times) last year saying goodbye to our beautiful girl at 19. Sleep well Alfie. Flowers

Mogloveseggs · 02/07/2021 21:26

What a beautiful boy. Oh I'm so sorry Flowers

RaraRachael · 02/07/2021 21:27

So sorry. He was a gorgeous boy and obviously meant the world to you and your family. Flowers

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