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TW/ Grief while pregnant.

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3babylady · 07/03/2021 19:49

My poor baby Shadow was hit by a car and left outside our house yesterday evening our caring neighbors knew he was ours got me to him just in time to get him to the vets unfortunately he couldn't of survived his injuries.
We had to put him to sleep and bring him home we're we buried him this morning.
I've cried nonstop since last night I'm truly heartbroken he was 9 months old today, he was adored by us we got him in August he was our kids first pet. I truly feel like I'm never going to get over this, how could someone so heartless leave him in the state they did?
Why is it not a crime to report hitting a cat?
How did they hit him outside our house and not just give him a knock?
I'm worried I've cried so much and the only upside is the first kicks I've felt from my baby have been today, I feel like he was sent here to stop my worrying and now we know the baby is going to be here soon he's gone, I'm devastated any tips on grieving pet loss with kids while pregnant would be really appreciated.
Miss my little Shadow so so much I can't even behind to tell you.
Thanks all.

TW/ Grief while pregnant.
TW/ Grief while pregnant.
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Whatwhyhowwherewho · 07/03/2021 20:23

I’m so, so sorry Flowers I lost my beloved furry friend when he was hit by a car age 2. I was devastated so I do understand how you feel. They are so loved and such a big part of our family it’s only natural that we grieve so much when we lose them. My DC was a teen & I wasn’t pregnant so no advice there sorry, just wanted to say you are not alone.
There is a memorial thread here if you want to post more photos. So sorry for your loss Flowers

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/the_litter_tray/3965838-The-Litter-Tray-Memorial-Thread?msgid=101775170

3babylady · 07/03/2021 20:46

[quote Whatwhyhowwherewho]I’m so, so sorry Flowers I lost my beloved furry friend when he was hit by a car age 2. I was devastated so I do understand how you feel. They are so loved and such a big part of our family it’s only natural that we grieve so much when we lose them. My DC was a teen & I wasn’t pregnant so no advice there sorry, just wanted to say you are not alone.
There is a memorial thread here if you want to post more photos. So sorry for your loss Flowers

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/the_litter_tray/3965838-The-Litter-Tray-Memorial-Thread?msgid=101775170[/quote]
Thankyou so much for the page link and your words, were all just in a state of shock can't believe he won't wake me up again. Xxx

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