Help! My boyfriend has recently pretty much moved in and so my bedroom doors have been shut more than normal. I have two cats who are used to it just being us and my DS and are now not at all coping with someone new being here ....
One cat is totally nonplused but the other is highly anxious and needy at the best of times. Boyfriend says that he thought he heard her this morning outside our door (she squeaks) and then when we got up she had done a massive poo on the stairs on the sort of mini landing.
Now to be fair, it may not be her it could be him (other cat not boyfriend!) but I don't think so. The problem though is this is the second time this has happened in the same place (I have disinfected). And after our holiday I found one in the corner of my DS's room ....
I have feliway all over the house, she is very happy to cuddle up to boyfriend in front of the telly, I am still wfh so here pretty much all the time. But help! I am not a cat psychologist! What else should I be doing? She is currently curled up on the floor in my office looking v pleased with herself. Any guidance welcome!