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Cat PTS yesterday - not really coping

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nolongersurprised · 15/02/2020 00:51

Hi,

We had 3 cats including two five year old males from the same litter. The biggest and we thought healthiest one, called Chester, was PTS yesterday after suffering what the vet thought was probably a saddle embolus (large blood clot affecting blood supply to the legs). Apparently the most common cause of this on cats is hypertrophic cardiomyopathy which is fairly insidious and hard to spot until the cat is really sick or there’s a complication. Cancer is another possibility.

It’s all been fairly shit - he went missing on Monday and didn’t come back till Thursday with limp, infected legs, painful legs although there was some blood supply. The first vet thought it may have been trauma secondary to being hit by a car - although she wasn’t sure - with secondary infection and he was transferred to the local cat ICU and given loads of antibiotics, pain relief and fluids and medication to support his blood pressure. There was no spinal injury, no fractures and no other injuries. He made it through the night and there was a plan to amputate the worst leg. We knew he was sick but also felt he had a chance. I actually went in overnight to say goodbye but then he picked up again so I think that gave me false hope.

In the morning we consulted with the vet ICU specialist who said the pattern of infection of both legs was symmetrical, there was no sign of trauma and it was entirely consistent with a thromboembolic event. I am a doctor and I agreed based on how dusky and floppy his legs were when I first saw him. She also said that he was struggling with the sepsis and while theoretically he might pull through this illness with an amputation of the worst leg there was a good chance it would happen again in a few months. He was pretty sedated with the fentanyl infusion and overall comfortable but still in pain when his legs were moved. His blood pressure wasn’t great and he hadn’t passed urine. It was an easy decision to have him PTS and he passed with me telling him how much we all loved him (other cats and the 4 kids).

We have decided to get an autopsy because if it was HCM because then we’ll get his brother checked out with a cat Echo and he can go on prophylactic medication to reduce clots, though hopefully he doesn’t have it.

I’m just really struggling. The kids are devastated but OK because they knew he might die from the onset.

I’m not coping with 2 parts of it though. The first is that he would have been in so much pain when the clot happened. The vet said cats go away to hide when things like this happen and I’m grateful he came back so we could make him comfortable but it breaks me to think of him hurting by himself.

The second thing I’m struggling with is that we noticed a few weeks ago that he wasn’t eating as much and I wish we’d taken him to get checked out, although he didn’t have a heart murmur and hasn’t lost weight and was still energetic. Realistically I know he would’ve examined normally and there would have been no need to refer for an echo but I’m stuck in that “what could we have done earlier” thought pattern. We just joked that he was probably getting fed across the road because he used to hang out there.

Sorry this is so long. I’m surprised by my grief, I’ve had other cats PTS before but they were old and this was so sudden.

Presumably this is just normal grief and it will pass? We’re getting him cremated and the kids are choosing the best picture of him to put on the decorative box.

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nolongersurprised · 18/02/2020 11:58

I'm sitting at home waiting for the vet to call to see if they have managed to reduce the fluid on her lungs but they have at least been honest that no matter what I decide, or how much money I throw at this, it's a matter of time before she has another relapse even if they manage to stabilise her today.

That’s shit. I’m so sorry.

This is not your fault though, it really isn’t. As a PP said, it’s not rational to take them to vet every time they are a bit picky with their food. The vet said the same to me about clots and cats, that if it’s HCM or cancer the chances of recurrence are high - that was the clincher for me. Watching your cat struggle though a life-threatening episode seems justifiable if it’s once, but not as a recurring event.

It’s an awful phone call to wait for though, I hope she’s ok or that’s if she’s not she’s comfortable and peaceful.

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Confusedcatlady1 · 18/02/2020 17:36

Hello @nolongersurprised,
I’m sorry to hear that your cat has died. It sounded like he had a great life and was a cherished member of your family. I know how difficult it is when our pets go but please do not dwell on the fact that he was hidden away when he was hurting, it’s something natural to cats and not something we as humans understand. I’ve heard stories of families who been at a hospital bedside of a poorly relative and the five minutes the family had left the bedside to make a phone call their relative passed away. People feel guilt but I think sometimes the person dying didn’t want their relatives to suffer further by being with them when they passed, there’s so much we don’t understand but our capacity to love with a huge heart also means our hearts get broken but please take comfort that your cat was a cherished happy cat.

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nolongersurprised · 18/02/2020 22:08

I know how difficult it is when our pets go but please do not dwell on the fact that he was hidden away when he was hurting, it’s something natural to cats and not something we as humans understand.

Thank you! I do feel terrible but I’m trying to forgive myself because animal instincts aren’t something we can control. He’s having the autopsy this week, his bad back leg looked so terrible with the infection and lack of blood supply. I feel worried that the people doing at the autopsy will look at him and think he wasn’t well-cared for.

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nolongersurprised · 04/03/2020 10:07

Just an update - he had the autopsy and he did have HCM and a large clot in the lower part of the aorta. Poor little cat, I’m just pleased we were able to give him a kind death.

I know it’s an overreaction but I think we’ll get his brother’s heart scanned as well, even though he is completely well.

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nettie434 · 04/03/2020 14:13

I know it’s an overreaction but I think we’ll get his brother’s heart scanned as well, even though he is completely well.

I don’t think it is an over reaction nolongersurprised. This way even on the worst case scenario that your lovely cat’s brother has the same condition, you will at least be on the alert for any changes. Hopefully, that will not be the case and you will have a weight off your mind. There was another thread around the same time as yours from a medic whose also lost her cat this way. I think she planned to do the same. It sounds like it is something where symptoms are easy to miss. Fingers crossed your other cat is not affected.

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Potentialmadcatlady · 04/03/2020 14:24

I help with palliative care cats so totally understand how awful it is to lose them... allow yourself to grieve and be sad.. it’s important to process what has happened..
One thing I do which helps me and the kids is to bring them home after cremation and buy a big bunch of flowers that suit their personality. I then have them in the fireplace for a couple of weeks with the flowers and a few of their favourite toys. It helps us talk about them and feel sad but also remember the happy times and how loved they were..

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Fluffycloudland77 · 04/03/2020 17:05

I’d do exactly the same.

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oldestchild90s · 04/03/2020 19:58

Just read the story, i'm so sorry to hear what happened to your poor boy. I don't think you're overreacting either! I hope things continue to get better for you over time and you can remember how lovely he was and the great memories he gave you 😻

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nolongersurprised · 04/03/2020 20:29

Thank you for the kind replies. I am a medic too and last night DH was called into work so I read some vet papers about it and they do recommend getting siblings checked, so hopefully the vet won’t think I’m nuts.

I tried to listen to his heart last night with my stethoscope but all I could hear was purring Smile.

His ashes will come to us next Tuesday as they need to be delivered in person and I don’t work on that day.

It helps us talk about them and feel sad but also remember the happy times and how loved they were.

Three weeks later the trauma of having him turn up so sick is passing and now I (we) just miss him. Although I have to be honest and say the other two cats don’t, he could be a bit of a bully to one of them.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 05/03/2020 20:48

I love that you took your stethoscope home.

Our cats never cared when one of the others passed away.

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