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Am I mad to consider 3rd cat?

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coldlocation · 27/04/2019 22:33

Have 2 x rescue girls, 2.5 and nearly 2. One is thick as pigshit and very sociable and personable and always rolling over and chirruping at the other one to play. She came from a Romanian dog rescue charity and spent the first 18 months of her life in a shelter there with other cats and dogs, and was living in a house with cats and dogs when first fostered in the uk. The other was a stray from a local rescue, she is very very pretty but not keen on being handled - tolerates stroke and head rubs then hisses and buggers off and ignores all the Romanian's attempts to chase /play.

Romanian has taken to lurking then pouncing on stray from around corners. Stray swats her, Romanian rolls over and chirrups. Stray swats her again, hisses and walks away. Romanian follows stray eagerly, gets hissed at agai or death stares then gives up and bugs humans for attention.

Considering a male kitten to change up thy dynamic....viewing one tmrw a.m.

Grew up with 3 cats and best mate always has 5 or more cats.

I can't decide if no. 3 is a good idea or not.

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coldlocation · 28/04/2019 15:13

@fluffy yes. I'd done my reading on bengals and have good friends who own bengals. Satisfied that this boy is more moggy than pure breed having seen mum, adult sibling and dad. I would not have considered a full bengal.

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MeltedEggMum · 28/04/2019 15:17

Oh I thought cat grudges were just normal! Our neighbour has a male who likes to terrorise and taunt our two females. They get into arguments at least a couple times a week.

Beamur · 29/04/2019 08:44

Cats are creatures with complex social interactions.
I have 2 cats, my next door neighbour also has 2.
Both of her cats will duff one of mine up on sight. My other cat is pals with them - one more than the other. If both of next doors are out, they gang up (boisterous rather than vicious) on their 'pal' but if it's just one, they mostly hang out quite peacefully.

Iwouldratherbemuckingout · 29/04/2019 08:54

I had a younger cat who was desperate to play, but my older ones weren't having it. We lost his 2 playmates to FIP and the road. For reasons of total insanity, I recently took on a 10 month old ginger pudding. Made sure I spent the time to integrate him properly, and now it is a joy to see him and the younger cat tearing around together. I'm now up to 6! But I'm more the sort who is disappointed if there is a room without a cat in it!

RickOShay · 29/04/2019 14:12

He is adorable Grin
Well done. Have you got a name?
Hopefully he will play with your Romanian, and leave your stray to walk alone!

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